"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why had this 600# woman have such an easy time getting men?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Why not actually talk to women and decide not to bang them when they want it? Then have them say what will i do with you?
Actually that's what i do and it's probably a waste of time as well.
I don't deny that I strip club-max and VIPmax in the strip club.... I've talked about it before and have no guilt or shame about it.....I do whatever is necessary to give myself an advantage in life....
....having excessive thirst puts a man at a disadvantage, so I do what I have to do to kill the thirst.... the thirst is the biggest clue that gives away a man's drought status.....
The real question is: do I care?....no.... the whole purpose of VIPmaxxing is to kill the thirst so I WON'T care what they think.... If it can get me some IOI and segue into some conversation, great, I'm good with that.... If it doesn't spark conversation, no problem, I'll just on about my business thirst-free...
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Thought the meds were doing that now.
They are, and thank goodness for that because strip clubs are closed and will probably all go out of business.....
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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They closed in Ontario too. We are getting the second wave.
mrgoodstuff
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I wasn't trying to get likes I was telling the truth. Sellers on a man or woman are two different things.
mrgoodstuff
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Sexless on a man and a woman are two different things
EyeBRollin
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.