"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why Go Through Drama and stress? BE HAPPY

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I've been reading here awhile and finally decided to post because this thread made me realize something. I feel like sometimes people get caught up with just how much info is on 'this site. I started overthinking just about everything I was doing in my relationships.

I feel like as long as you have strong sense of self respect and worth you'll be able to handle anything female related. But I'd love to hear what more experienced people have learned in there time being here
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Blazing said:
I've been reading here awhile and finally decided to post because this thread made me realize something. I feel like sometimes people get caught up with just how much info is on 'this site. I started overthinking just about everything I was doing in my relationships.

I feel like as long as you have strong sense of self respect and worth you'll be able to handle anything female related. But I'd love to hear what more experienced people have learned in there time being here
well I'm glad this brought you to the furom if you want more posts like this search posts I created as well as BraDd80. And purefilth. all my posts are based off my experience what I've learned in becoming a Don Juan I'm glad you're here welcome
 

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getting laid doesn't make you happy...only temporarily so...i am getting laid every weekend by mostly different chicks and it doesn't seem to make me happy...i was actually more happy when i wasn't getting laid frequently because i wasn't obsessed with it...happiness is a state of mind...
 

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What makes you happy is learning to be 100 percent ok with your self and toi keep accomplishing goals...the rest will come in time
 

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Life is good Enjoy your reminder!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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