"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why Go Through Drama and stress? BE HAPPY

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I've been reading here awhile and finally decided to post because this thread made me realize something. I feel like sometimes people get caught up with just how much info is on 'this site. I started overthinking just about everything I was doing in my relationships.

I feel like as long as you have strong sense of self respect and worth you'll be able to handle anything female related. But I'd love to hear what more experienced people have learned in there time being here
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Blazing said:
I've been reading here awhile and finally decided to post because this thread made me realize something. I feel like sometimes people get caught up with just how much info is on 'this site. I started overthinking just about everything I was doing in my relationships.

I feel like as long as you have strong sense of self respect and worth you'll be able to handle anything female related. But I'd love to hear what more experienced people have learned in there time being here
well I'm glad this brought you to the furom if you want more posts like this search posts I created as well as BraDd80. And purefilth. all my posts are based off my experience what I've learned in becoming a Don Juan I'm glad you're here welcome
 

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getting laid doesn't make you happy...only temporarily so...i am getting laid every weekend by mostly different chicks and it doesn't seem to make me happy...i was actually more happy when i wasn't getting laid frequently because i wasn't obsessed with it...happiness is a state of mind...
 

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What makes you happy is learning to be 100 percent ok with your self and toi keep accomplishing goals...the rest will come in time
 

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Life is good Enjoy your reminder!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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