Why Girls like Pretty Boys

[plumber]

I mean, I get it, but have you seen recent posts, everything is I can't get a girl because:
1. I'm short
2. I'm bald
3. Im poor
4. I have trauma cause of my ex
5. I embarrassed myself in a speed dating
6. I'm awkward
7. Chad
8. Face is what matters and I don't have good facial features
9. Can't have good sex
10. I live in a small city
11. She took too long to text back

Sometimes this forum feels like a meeting "Men Survivors Of Testicular Cancer", where they don't have testosterone cause they cut their balls off and they meet to cry together.

Men, Be Courageous, improve your shortcomings and talk to women, its not really that hard.

not really picking on this post, it just happens to contain the point.

Point being, one size does not fit all. just like we have different looks, our brains are different. one man is 6'2" while another is 5'. The same goes for our mind and brains. One has ABILITY in an area that another does not.

Just as we can not teach a 5' man to become 6'2" we can not teach beyond ability. There has been work to adjust mental ability with psilocybin, that is beyond the topics of this forum. So, just as we can train a 5' man to perhaps have a dead lift of 500 lbs, we can not train him to be 6'2". The same applies to understanding and processing social behavior. We can teach a man what to say and do but we can not teach him how to read the feedback so he can make the correct second step. This ability a very complex set of processing that occurs and is controlled by how the neurons connect. This is where we get lost and many men get frustrated. This is a skill that is innate. Those that have the skill, believe others also do and do not appreciate the blessing they are born with.

RP does a good job of teaching men to improve body, emotional control, looks, wealth. But game... most of game is innate.

All is not lost, the first key is to not expect to develop skill that is innate in others. Instead, be amazed at what you/we can do and walk tall. Coaches, don't insist something is easy, just because its easy for you or you heard it second hand that is it easy. Figure out what the student is good at and build from that. The confidence of success, will bubble over into creating attractiveness.

The fastest way to failure and low self esteem is to expect our ability to be the same or better than another. ESPECIALLY when it is an innate skill such as ability to read emotions and behaviors of others.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Feminine women do NOT like pretty boys !!! Stop letting garbage youtube channels tell you how the world works.

Women say one thing yet repond to another ................. we've all seen the ugly guy in a local band get with beautiful women all the time. You're letting your insecurties stopy ou from going for what you want.

I don’t know man. Seduction will always be a form of female power. Those who believe that straight masculinity is the most seductive often overlook the deeper impact of mirroring the qualities women admire in themselves, such as elegance, sensitivity to detail, and coquettishness. By embodying female traits such as these, and masculine traits such as assertiveness and an air of mystery, a man can attract a wider array of potential suitors, disarming women through intrigue and ambiguity. You are literally turning the game on them.

 

[DJ Novice]

Most women will be more attracted to a physique that has an athletic level of development compared to a guy that has never worked out and carries excess weight or looks like a stick insect.

If you work out hard in the gym as a natural and watch your diet this is achievable for most guys.

The overly muscular look that can only be achieved through steroids or if you are a genetic freak really isn’t that attractive to most women (although some will find it appealing).

My current girlfriend is repelled by too many muscles on guys and her girlfriends feel the same way. She does quite like my physique which is just built on a twice weekly gym routine. Nothing special (I am small boned) but with my shirt off you can tell I work out compared to guys who don’t particularly at my age (56) when most guys have let themselves go and look like Homer Simpson.

I think it’s the same phenomenon as too much cosmetic surgery on women. Too much of anything can be a turnoff.

Working out, keeping your grooming on par, having good fashion sense, wearing cologne, being able to carry a conversation, having confidence and a sense of humour and understanding game/female psychology are all things most guys can work on even if you aren’t that gifted in the looks, height, status or money department.

 

[Ricky]

I don’t know man. Seduction will always be a form of female power. Those who believe that straight masculinity is the most seductive often overlook the deeper impact of mirroring the qualities women admire in themselves, such as elegance, sensitivity to detail, and coquettishness. By embodying female traits such as these, and masculine traits such as assertiveness and an air of mystery, a man can attract a wider array of potential suitors, disarming women through intrigue and ambiguity. You are literally turning the game on them.

Robert Greene, my man now are you…

 

[Vanderdonck]

We all do rather we want to admit it or not.

Projection, cope, & frame fail.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Robert Greene, my man now are you…

Yea…

 

[Clockwerk50]

That's what actually matters in everything, love and life.



Wtf is this. Those words mean nothing, those are container words, you do something and you stamp it with "elegance, sensitivity to details and coquettishnes"

Give example of what you think those things are

Where I come from people know how to say please...

Elegance:

• Good posture, proper dressing, excellent manners (e.g., table manners), grooming (e.g., haircut, trimmed nails, brushed teeth, and trimmed beard), speak eloquently, emotional intelligence (e.g., reading the room) etc.

Sensitivity to detail:

• Eating properly, clean car, fresh sheets, conversation pieces, tidy backyard, nice BBQ, groomed dogs, clean shoes, music, indoor plants, books, home decoration, jewelry (necklace, rings, earrings).

Coquettishness:

• Telling her or insinuate things such as "if I was trying to seduce you, I'd do things differently" or "the way you smell/your perfume should be prohibited" and change the subject.

All the advice Youtubers give to look good are actually feminine traits.

PS: I am a welder too. I am actually in welding sales. I'll give you a bottle of mix argon for free if you become a fan.

 

[Solomon]

Overthinking the ever living piss out of everything from the safe space of one's keyboard is easy. Walking out of your home, and being out in the wild, can be difficult and scary at times. Thus, more and more of us are choosing to do the former

Thus, more and more are frustrated with women they become (which is at an ATH) "life" is happening offline, not on YouTube comments, Reddit, or even Sosuave.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Instead of worrying about it, go outside and talk to women.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Cause my former self sucked, not because of the opinion of any woman but my own

so why did you come here and not go anywhere else?

 

[CornbreadFed]

I came here when I read rationale male. It was good in the beginning like 3 years ago, but then snowflakes like you started to join and complain.

I'm 5'6" and when I started to get results putting in the work, I realized I surpassed 90% of men, cause competition is easy as you can see in this post. Now I'm here when I'm bored and to laugh at posts like this one:

Booohooooo girls like pretty bois and I'm not pretty booohhhoooo, I want my mommy to give me a hug, she always told me I was pretty but girls don't share the same opinion, now I live my life according to women's opinion.

In the first section, The Feminine Imperative, Tomassi explores the underlying motivations and strategies of women in relationships. He argues that society is driven by a feminine-centric agenda that prioritizes female empowerment and control over male behavior. By examining the feminist movement and its impact on gender dynamics, Tomassi sheds light on the power dynamics at play in modern relationships.

Way to contradict yourself my guy. The first section of your book literally relates to your book. Sit down and give it a rest lol.

 

[Velasco]

To me this was always fairly obvious back when we were growing up that girls liked pretty boys. Then you get lost in the PUA rabbithole that looks don't matter. And you finally start getting laid, that you suddenly forget that simple fact. You even brag about not showering, not putting on cologne, or fixing your hair, and you still managed to get laid with a fairly attractive girl. Because you have frame, and passed all her sh1t tests, while you looked like sh1t. Yet the type of girls you really want to fvck, still allude you. So you focus on continuing to improve your game, work on your body language, seek out better PUA coaches etc, because your still stuck in the rabbithole of looks not mattering. It's only when you escape the rabbithole, that you return to what you already knew when you were a kid: Pretty girls like pretty guys. So then you become pretty yourself, and then suddenly you start getting these pretty girls that alluded you before, fairly easily. and realize it was never a game issue.

 

[Chow Mein]

To me this was always fairly obvious back when we were growing up that girls liked pretty boys. Then you get lost in the PUA rabbithole that looks don't matter. And you finally start getting laid, that you suddenly forget that simple fact. You even brag about not showering, not putting on cologne, or fixing your hair, and you still managed to get laid with a fairly attractive girl. Because you have frame, and passed all her sh1t tests, while you looked like sh1t. Yet the type of girls you really want to fvck, still allude you. So you focus on continuing to improve your game, work on your body language, seek out better PUA coaches etc, because your still stuck in the rabbithole of looks not mattering. It's only when you escape the rabbithole, that you return to what you already knew when you were a kid: Pretty girls like pretty guys. So then you become pretty yourself, and then suddenly you start getting these pretty girls that alluded you before, fairly easily. and realize it was never a game issue.

You put in the work mentally and improve what you can physically. It really isn’t hard.

There are dudes out there that don’t put in the effort and then complain. Ain’t no chick wanting your sperm that’s spoiled milk.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

So if you like a shirt, and she says "go change it you don't look good" you will change it cause of her opinion? That's how men lose $hittest and their relationship ends.

I have acquiesced to women regarding stuff like this. And it didn’t end my relationships. In similar fashion I have gotten some of my girls to change their clothes as well. Looking attractive to your partner is important in a relationship. It’s not a Sh!tests. Women don’t sh!ttest men they are horny for.

 

[Chow Mein]

I have acquiesced to women regarding stuff like this. And it didn’t end my relationships. In similar fashion I have gotten some of my girls to change their clothes as well. Looking attractive to your partner is important in a relationship. It’s not a Sh!tests. Women don’t sh!ttest men they are horny for.

I think a lot of men are rigid to protect their ego. People communicate in different ways, the medium’s in the message. If an attractive chick told me my shirt doesn’t look good, I would definitely consider altering my wardrobe. Constructive criticism.

 

[Manure Spherian]

I learned that women aren't as receptive to the one directional hyper masculine male vs the pretty boy pretty early on. In addition, Chad is just a pretty boy with slight masculine features to make him appear more edgy. Some real-life examples, I think Travis Kelce & JJ Watt are the perfect example of Chads while Jalen Hurts & Joe Burrow will fall in the pretty boy category. The mistake I see most men making is that they neglect everything but muscles and end up looking like this guy: There's nothing wrong with him from a guy's point of view, but most women are going to find this guy either MID or unattractive compared to other men.

Men cannot control whether they’re pretty or not. My son has pretty-boy looks. He was born with them.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Men cannot control whether they’re pretty or not. My son has pretty-boy looks. He was born with them.

You can control your hair, style, presentation, take good care of yourself, and etc. Arguably, this is easier than going to the gym and trying to build somebody that are against your genetic makeup.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Did you forget to take the medicine today? That $hit that you wrote doesn't relate to anything in this post, and I thought you were one of the wise ones when you posted about your girl wanting to marry you.

"underlying motivations and strategies of women in relationships" applies to what women find attractive and what they don't find attractive.

 

[Manure Spherian]

You can control your hair, style, presentation, take good care of yourself, and etc. Arguably, this is easier than going to the gym and trying to build somebody that are against your genetic makeup.

A jacked pretty boy with a beard is still a pretty boy. Being described as “pretty” regards hair and eye color, complexion, and facial structure.

You have it, or you don’t. I don’t.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Well if you change a shirt that you like cause she told you, you look ugly, then cool man, I won't do that, its my liking, not hers. Women $hittest the most when they're very attracted to you, its common knowledge.

I imagine that relationship you had with girl didn't work, cause that's called betatization by a thousand concessions, starts with the shirt...

I look attractive to women by doing attractive things, those things also make me a man.

We are not at war with women. Relationships aren’t a zero-sum game. Women do not sh!test men they want to fvck. Women will simp for a hot guy with a good dvck.