I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Are you saying you want to be a female, and easily have sex with many guys?gonnamakeachange said:
I know what he was getting at. And I never really looked at it from that perspective, but it actually makes a lot of sense.ChalengeGuyFan said:No, what he says is that a girl who gets laid a lot will be labeled a <negative word> (slut or whatever) because she doesn't have to work for it.
Men who get laid a lot DO work for it, therefore are labeled with a positive word.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I agree with that 100 percent. It's all about value. There's a stigma for women who sleep around because they're giving away something that's seen as valuable to random men. Because it's easy for a woman to get laid, it's not seen as an achievement. But for men, ***** is a lot harder to get so getting a lot of it is seen as an achievement.gonnamakeachange said:
No offense, but you are talking BS! A man wants all women, doing one thing for him (OK, with oral and anal these are 3 things). A woman wants only one man, doing everything for her.gonnamakeachange said: