Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Are you saying you want to be a female, and easily have sex with many guys?gonnamakeachange said:
I know what he was getting at. And I never really looked at it from that perspective, but it actually makes a lot of sense.ChalengeGuyFan said:No, what he says is that a girl who gets laid a lot will be labeled a <negative word> (slut or whatever) because she doesn't have to work for it.
Men who get laid a lot DO work for it, therefore are labeled with a positive word.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I agree with that 100 percent. It's all about value. There's a stigma for women who sleep around because they're giving away something that's seen as valuable to random men. Because it's easy for a woman to get laid, it's not seen as an achievement. But for men, ***** is a lot harder to get so getting a lot of it is seen as an achievement.gonnamakeachange said:
No offense, but you are talking BS! A man wants all women, doing one thing for him (OK, with oral and anal these are 3 things). A woman wants only one man, doing everything for her.gonnamakeachange said: