"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why for some reason my folks think i do gang related stuff-why

joe45

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not sure why but my mom or dad that im not in the traids or any gangs. or do drugs.
for some reason they always think i am. they always ask who phoned and i say a friend and they want to now how i met them, where i met them, what they do, if they are chinese or not, blah blah....if a friend does come over and i hardly do invite friend or friends to come over they would intrerogriate them. by pretty much asking them the same question i said above and maybe more. i go to my friends house and their parents just leave me alone-no questions but just a simple hello.

i come home from work and i finish at 4 30 and sometime i meet with friends or friend or even an aquaitance im hoping later to be a friend or gf and i would come home at 7 -since we go have dinner or just walk around.
when i get home they would question me the same stuff as mention in the above. where did you go? who did you hang out with? you not doing gang stuff are you. your not dealing or smuggling drugs right? your not doing drugs right? for sake why do they even think always negative about me and think its always i am in gang or doing some illegal gang stuff or smoke dope. is it too much chinese drama tv shows.
i mean if i was a gangster i would be rich and not doing the job im doing or dressing so poor and just busing. gang guys are rich, well the one i knew from friend of friend from work has a SLR Mercedes and is like 20 years old.
for sake i dont even smoke and hardly even drink. lol its just too expensive. come to the point i just joke around and say yep just shooting ppl around in my ak 47 with the traids, next day i might say got traded to the yakuzas and will me pimping babes. lol

why is it everytime a girl phone my folks assume its a white girl, ah white girls dont or hardly date us asian chinese guys. why they do assume its a gwai low mui(assuming the worst) and not an asian or chiense girl-maybe thinking they wont even look at me
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don Israel

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Relax. It might comfort knowing that a lot of asian parents living in the west ( who moved to the west during their post-teenage years ) are like that.

as a part asian woman, my mom though i joined a gang when i bought a nice gold chain.

Bling Bling!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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