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why for some reason my folks think i do gang related stuff-why

joe45

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not sure why but my mom or dad that im not in the traids or any gangs. or do drugs.
for some reason they always think i am. they always ask who phoned and i say a friend and they want to now how i met them, where i met them, what they do, if they are chinese or not, blah blah....if a friend does come over and i hardly do invite friend or friends to come over they would intrerogriate them. by pretty much asking them the same question i said above and maybe more. i go to my friends house and their parents just leave me alone-no questions but just a simple hello.

i come home from work and i finish at 4 30 and sometime i meet with friends or friend or even an aquaitance im hoping later to be a friend or gf and i would come home at 7 -since we go have dinner or just walk around.
when i get home they would question me the same stuff as mention in the above. where did you go? who did you hang out with? you not doing gang stuff are you. your not dealing or smuggling drugs right? your not doing drugs right? for sake why do they even think always negative about me and think its always i am in gang or doing some illegal gang stuff or smoke dope. is it too much chinese drama tv shows.
i mean if i was a gangster i would be rich and not doing the job im doing or dressing so poor and just busing. gang guys are rich, well the one i knew from friend of friend from work has a SLR Mercedes and is like 20 years old.
for sake i dont even smoke and hardly even drink. lol its just too expensive. come to the point i just joke around and say yep just shooting ppl around in my ak 47 with the traids, next day i might say got traded to the yakuzas and will me pimping babes. lol

why is it everytime a girl phone my folks assume its a white girl, ah white girls dont or hardly date us asian chinese guys. why they do assume its a gwai low mui(assuming the worst) and not an asian or chiense girl-maybe thinking they wont even look at me
 

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Relax. It might comfort knowing that a lot of asian parents living in the west ( who moved to the west during their post-teenage years ) are like that.

as a part asian woman, my mom though i joined a gang when i bought a nice gold chain.

Bling Bling!

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