"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why? (eye contact and other stuff)

Bonafide

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Tell me, why do chicks always stare at me? But it doesnt seem like they are giving me a loving stare lol its like I catch em and they are like just staring with no emotion....and well today, Im sitting in class... the door was open anda chick walks by...we make eye contact for abour 2.5 seconds (the ammount of time it takes her to pass the door) and after she passes the door she walks back and gives like a stare and just walks off again...however I dunno if she was staring at me or the kid next to me...but we both made eye contact with her (im guessing)

and another question... I can hold eye contact with girls for a long time but sometime when im on the streets or at the bus stations when going to school (im 16) I see these females and some of the eye contact last longer than others. However, I read somewhere that the male should never look away first, but these girls hold the contact for so long I feel like they are going to feel threatened and confront me rather than attracted if I continue to hold contact so sometime I just look away



and theres this girl I see in the afternoons now, I like her shes, pretty...seems quiet and shy but you never know...we never really had eye contact up until yesterday where I caught her basically giving a dead stare at me and like she looked like she wanted to murder me or something lol I dunno wut to do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sam3083

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Instead of just looking back at them, smile - ya doofus :crackup: .


...The worlds a mirror, etc.
 
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