"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why? (eye contact and other stuff)

Bonafide

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Tell me, why do chicks always stare at me? But it doesnt seem like they are giving me a loving stare lol its like I catch em and they are like just staring with no emotion....and well today, Im sitting in class... the door was open anda chick walks by...we make eye contact for abour 2.5 seconds (the ammount of time it takes her to pass the door) and after she passes the door she walks back and gives like a stare and just walks off again...however I dunno if she was staring at me or the kid next to me...but we both made eye contact with her (im guessing)

and another question... I can hold eye contact with girls for a long time but sometime when im on the streets or at the bus stations when going to school (im 16) I see these females and some of the eye contact last longer than others. However, I read somewhere that the male should never look away first, but these girls hold the contact for so long I feel like they are going to feel threatened and confront me rather than attracted if I continue to hold contact so sometime I just look away



and theres this girl I see in the afternoons now, I like her shes, pretty...seems quiet and shy but you never know...we never really had eye contact up until yesterday where I caught her basically giving a dead stare at me and like she looked like she wanted to murder me or something lol I dunno wut to do
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sam3083

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Instead of just looking back at them, smile - ya doofus :crackup: .


...The worlds a mirror, etc.
 
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