"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why don't you have a girlfriend?

The Forms

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I usually answer this one honestly, but don't divulge too much.

Lately when I get asked this I just respond, "I just got out of a relationship." Because I just did. Also, I just moved (hence why i broke up with the girl) so a new girlfriend is the last thing on my mind right now.

Once I move past this "new to town, getting my life together" mess, if I'm still single I'll probably just say, "I haven't met anyone that really does it for me lately."

A funnier response:

HER: why don't you have a girlfriend?
ME: Oh, no thanks. You're not my type.
HER: I didn't mean ME.
ME: Sure. Whatever helps you sleep at night.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I don't have a g/f - just plenty of hors!!!

G'F = full time hor!!
 

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muscleman said:
I hate how this site teaches us we have to be single
There is nothing wrong with having just one girlfriend...
It is getting obsessed with one specific girl that is the problem...
Oneitus... It pushes you into an AFC mind set...
If you date multiple women then you will be the happiest... period...
 
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