Why don't women just Submit to us like in the olden days?

[Poonani Maker]

I mean, these days they all want to butt heads with us and pose in the position that We're wrong (when their brain is made out of cake and based off of reflexes, not thought). They call us stupid. They don't respect us. In the olden days they knew their place. These days they all want to speak up! They should sit in silence and not be able to speak. It's just not in their nature to lead. When they try to take hold of the reigns, bad things happen. When people follow their words, it leads one and nations to ruin. I miss the good ole days even though I wasn't born then and never got to really experience it, only through movies now. Seeing woman as the director leads to ruin. Have you ever watched women on a cooking show or on the today show babble on and on about Clothes or Food or something? It's like watching a bunch of female Edward Scissor Hands slicing each other, bending the wrist towards each other, flap flap flapping their lips about stuff they "know" and you don't know that, but I know this, but you don't know that hahah, because I'm smarter than you hahah, cackling hen insanity. How does one put up with snobby women?? who don't know sh!t?:yawn:

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I mean, these days they all want to butt heads with us and pose in the position that We're wrong (when their brain is made out of cake and based off of reflexes, not thought). They call us stupid. They don't respect us. In the olden days they knew their place. These days they all want to speak up! They should sit in silence and not be able to speak. It's just not in their nature to lead. When they try to take hold of the reigns, bad things happen. When people follow their words, it leads one and nations to ruin. I miss the good ole days even though I wasn't born then and never got to really experience it, only through movies now. Seeing woman as the director leads to ruin. Have you ever watched women on a cooking show or on the today show babble on and on about Clothes or Food or something? It's like watching a bunch of female Edward Scissor Hands slicing each other, bending the wrist towards each other, flap flap flapping their lips about stuff they "know" and you don't know that, but I know this, but you don't know that hahah, because I'm smarter than you hahah, cackling hen insanity. How does one put up with snobby women?? who don't know sh!t?:yawn:

You don't have to put up with it y'know.

 

[bigjohnson]

Because it's against the law to beat them when they need it?

 

[Poonani Maker]

You don't have to put up with it y'know.

I know. Here is an 'updated' profile of a chick who contacted me a couple of months ago on plentyoffish:

"IF A MAN WANTS YOU........ If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life or a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Dont stay because you think "it will get beter." You'l be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any different? Always have your own set of friends seperate from his. Maintain boundries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord!? If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you! the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all of the bending... compromise is a two-way steet. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage.. deal with your issuesbefore pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him--he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. Share this with everyoine.... You'll make someone SMILE, another RETHINK choices, and others PREPARED. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them."

She contacted me on live chat. She asked me for more photos. Brought up going skiing with some friends the next day, I say, "That sounds like fun. You should invite me." She didn't say anything. We talked some more. She emailed me the next day saying that she got my pics and that she didn't even go skiing with her friends just went downtown. SHE was blowing opportunities left and right with me. I can't help women like this. She's hot, but I guess that she'll remain forever single with no kids if she continue on her man-hating path. She's 31. I think that she USED my pics to make herself FEEL better about herself, because she has new pics up now that show her with a BIG smile on her face all bright and lit up. She's USING my energy. I should have made her PayPal for those photos I sent her that day. I feel used by the modern American woman. They TAKE what they don't deserve. That I even considered her probably makes her feel on cloud 9 now.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

... I feel used by the modern American woman. They TAKE what they don't deserve. That I even considered her probably makes her feel on cloud 9 now.

They can't take anything from you unless you allow them to. After reading her profile, what possessed you to engage her anyway???!!! It had "I'm trying to heal" written all over it. Why do guys choose to constantly bypass the qualification process? It's as if they are looking to bring drama into their lives.

 

[PhatE1vis]

Poonani,

I agree that men and women should have distict roles, but to be honest, your first thread sounds a little misogynistic. Have you been burnt recently? Be strong, not a hater.

And along the same lines, the profile description you posted sounds pretty female DJish. Pretty healthy in my opinion.

I want a strong woman, not some chick who sits silently by and lets me run over her. That's boring. You just have to be stronger than her to keep the balance.

 

[reset]

I read the first few sentences then I couldn't continue, then I skipped to the paragraph that was about the OP. I think my filter's getting stronger. A girl like that who lets you know UP FRONT all the issues and crap she has, if you get involved with that you should expect lots of drama and bytchiness.

 

[TheHumanist]

I refuse to agree in the ideas that the woman's place is below the man. Different, perhaps. Below, which is what you sound like if the connotations and denations suggest ("they should sit in silence and not speak"), I am going to disagree (and risk being called brainwashed by feminists).

Should respect and consideration be given more? Yes, the more the better. Should woman know their place? Yes, a person (men and women) should strive, but also know their limits, as contradicting and hard as it sound and conceptulize.

There are many arguments here today that says women are now being raised too much to think too antagonistically (I'm not sure that's a word...) and hostile. That, I can see at least. However, I do not believe that her mind and her dreams (some woman want to become doctors, go into politics, and engineers (BTW, not all of them are bad looking)) and this says they are incapable.

Also to note from my mind, leadership does not equal with simple dominance, it is not directly said, but I sense that it sounds like that.

 

[Poonani Maker]

I refuse to agree in the ideas that the woman's place is below the man. Different, perhaps. Below, which is what you sound like if the connotations and denations suggest ("they should sit in silence and not speak"), I am going to disagree (and risk being called brainwashed by feminists).

Should respect and consideration be given more? Yes, the more the better. Should woman know their place? Yes, a person (men and women) should strive, but also know their limits, as contradicting and hard as it sound and conceptulize.

There are many arguments here today that says women are now being raised too much to think too antagonistically (I'm not sure that's a word...) and hostile. That, I can see at least. However, I do not believe that her mind and her dreams (some woman want to become doctors, go into politics, and engineers (BTW, not all of them are bad looking)) and this says they are incapable.

Also to note from my mind, leadership does not equal with simple dominance, it is not directly said, but I sense that it sounds like that.

I stand corrected. There are deserving women who are in mens' fields, the doctors, astrophysicists etc. Could it be that these kind have a longer ring finger than their index finger? And thus were supplied more testosterone in the womb and had more spacial relational inclination to do man's work? Could be. I'm talking about the obviously Feminine hens who try to force the bridge across the gap between us in mere seconds, as if they just made it up in their minds that they have a stronger voice and have the gall to attempt to shout us down in any situation or any matter we find ourselves in. MOST women should be kept silent. Those genetically determined to be capable of at least keeping up with even surpassing some of us, should be allowed to sit at the table and discuss important issues, Man issues.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

The reason women dont submit is because there are many weak men out there. Weak for a piece of ass. A 100 years ago if a woman disobeyed or was disrespectful, he would backhand slap the sh!t out of her. Now, you do that and you are in jail.

What a bunch of mysoginystic bullcrap.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

I mean, these days they all want to butt heads with us and pose in the position that We're wrong (when their brain is made out of cake and based off of reflexes, not thought). They call us stupid. They don't respect us. In the olden days they knew their place. These days they all want to speak up! They should sit in silence and not be able to speak. It's just not in their nature to lead. When they try to take hold of the reigns, bad things happen. When people follow their words, it leads one and nations to ruin. I miss the good ole days even though I wasn't born then and never got to really experience it, only through movies now. Seeing woman as the director leads to ruin. Have you ever watched women on a cooking show or on the today show babble on and on about Clothes or Food or something? It's like watching a bunch of female Edward Scissor Hands slicing each other, bending the wrist towards each other, flap flap flapping their lips about stuff they "know" and you don't know that, but I know this, but you don't know that hahah, because I'm smarter than you hahah, cackling hen insanity. How does one put up with snobby women?? who don't know sh!t?:yawn:

Dude, you sound really young. Your apparent idea of how things were are not realistic at all. Women were always strong and vocal, and there's nothing wrong with that. The difference now is that men have become ignorant and weak. The problem lies with us, not with them.

 

[bigjohnson]

Dude, you sound really young. Your apparent idea of how things were are not realistic at all. Women were always strong and vocal, and there's nothing wrong with that.

There's nothing wrong with a woman expressing her views in the home or other private place, even arguing is healthy as long as there is respect, but to do so in public, or to belittle one another in public is a horrible breach that shouldn't be tolerated. Sadly this sort of 'cute' public sniping behavior is actually encouraged by brain dead TV programs.

The importance of respect in the home cannot overstated.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

There's nothing wrong with a woman expressing her views in the home or other private place, even arguing is healthy as long as there is respect, but to do so in public, or to belittle one another in public is a horrible breach that shouldn't be tolerated. Sadly this sort of 'cute' public sniping behavior is actually encouraged by brain dead TV programs.

The importance of respect in the home cannot overstated.

I see your point...."The View" is pretty damn annoying.

 

[Poonani Maker]

What a bunch of mysoginystic bullcrap.

No, it's not. One look at Rhett Butler threatening "if you were a man, I'd break your neck for that" to Scarlet for talking trash about his best and trusted wh0re girlfriend, provides the proof that it was common to physically correct the woman back in them days. Compromising womens' views to ours over the years has left us a weak, albeit lazy, nation and world. Would our Mother Earth be better off if women were in charge of everything and there were no men to damage it? If it hadn't been for the lusts of man, there wouldn't be cars, skyscrapers, nukes, etc. We laid the foundation. If we'd all quit working, laid down and lived in log cabins like little house on the prairie, Mother Earth would be more harmonious, women and our lives more peaceful, a bliss existence. The ying and yang is the turmoil that's brought us to where we are today, where people take advantage of each other around every corner, and at every opportunity. A totally submissive conglomerate of inhabitants on this Earth looking to the sky would bode better than a warring twisting turning turmoil of this ying and yang of human interrelations that grows exponentially each year, decade, century, and millenium. When will we all lay our backsides on the ground of the 1000 mile/hour spinning Earth, look up at the sky, and ponder our existence here living peacefully and harmoniously? God gave us this great feeling of sex to procreate and populate the Earth. This is where all action to sustain ourselves stems from, from the Garden of Eden, the place where death, sex, and blindness became a new reality on this Earth, and we were made to till the land - working causing us to forget to look up and live harmoniously as we did before the Fall of Man.

 

[Señor Fingers]

Women will start submitting when we stop whining like girls start taking charge like men. It's easy to blame them as a gender, but we are just as guilty for letting this sh!t get out of hand.

Regardless of how "liberated" women claim they are, they naturally need someone to dominate them. Until we fully understand and fulfill our roles as men, things will not be improving anytime soon.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Women will start submitting when we stop whining like girls start taking charge like men. It's easy to blame them as a gender, but we are just as guilty for letting this sh!t get out of hand....

Figure four leg lock will do it too.

 

[Tear Gas]

i think society has gone to pure sh1t, its not like when our parents/grandparents were married, now these women think theyre equal to men, so they can do whatever they want, act like ****s, not in my goddamn book, you stay in the goddamn kitchen and blend me my whey shakes and take care of the ****ing kids.........but NOOOOOO...its not like that anymore, so frankly i wouldnt be surprised if i was just a ****ing scumbag all my life slamming new pigs ya know?

 

[PrinceBeavis]

No, it's not. One look at Rhett Butler threatening "if you were a man, I'd break your neck for that" to Scarlet for talking trash about his best and trusted wh0re girlfriend, provides the proof that it was common to physically correct the woman back in them days. Compromising womens' views to ours over the years has left us a weak, albeit lazy, nation and world. Would our Mother Earth be better off if women were in charge of everything and there were no men to damage it? If it hadn't been for the lusts of man, there wouldn't be cars, skyscrapers, nukes, etc. We laid the foundation. If we'd all quit working, laid down and lived in log cabins like little house on the prairie, Mother Earth would be more harmonious, women and our lives more peaceful, a bliss existence. The ying and yang is the turmoil that's brought us to where we are today, where people take advantage of each other around every corner, and at every opportunity. A totally submissive conglomerate of inhabitants on this Earth looking to the sky would bode better than a warring twisting turning turmoil of this ying and yang of human interrelations that grows exponentially each year, decade, century, and millenium. When will we all lay our backsides on the ground of the 1000 mile/hour spinning Earth, look up at the sky, and ponder our existence here living peacefully and harmoniously? God gave us this great feeling of sex to procreate and populate the Earth. This is where all action to sustain ourselves stems from, from the Garden of Eden, the place where death, sex, and blindness became a new reality on this Earth, and we were made to till the land - working causing us to forget to look up and live harmoniously as we did before the Fall of Man.

1. You're talking about a MOVIE!!! A WORK OF FICTION.

2. You are totally babbling.

 

[bigjohnson]

I see your point...."The View" is pretty damn annoying.

It is, but that's not what I'm talking about. If a woman has a difference of opinion from the man it should be expressed in a respectful way and probably the time to do so should be carefully picked. Similarly a man shouldn't mock or belittle his woman in public. The thing is that women are not taught about respect to men the way most men are taught to respect others. Disrespect for others in women and children is portrayed as cute.

It's not cute.

Men in our society have other issues but we're not talking about those right now.

 

[PrinceBeavis]

It is, but that's not what I'm talking about. If a woman has a difference of opinion from the man it should be expressed in a respectful way and probably the time to do so should be carefully picked. Similarly a man shouldn't mock or belittle his woman in public. The thing is that women are not taught about respect to men the way most men are taught to respect others. Disrespect for others in women and children is portrayed as cute.

It's not cute.

Men in our society have other issues but we're not talking about those right now.

Right on.