"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why don't women just Submit to us like in the olden days?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women are simply less trusting these days.
And many women look at men as a walking wallet.
There are still a lot of things at stake for people.
Plus, the average person walks around in a cynical and scared Scarcity Mentality.

There are some women who will "submit" to a naturally masculine and dominant man.
If you are not that, then you may be expecting too much from a woman.
but when we put all this 'blame' and responsibiltiy on others for our OWN feelings and our OWN Happiness, then I can see where a lot of people go wrong and needlessly suffer.

Whenever you say something like this, you are in bad territory:

"But women SHOULD be this or SHOULD Do that, or SHOULD act this Way or SHOULD whatever..."


That's a bad place to be in .

Stop using the word 'should".

Stop living with the mindset that "people SHOULD..." or 'things SHOULD be this way..."
 
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