Why doesn't begging work?

[Speculator E]

Need a pick me up here. I've been in no contact with my ex girlfriend for a month now and I'm starting to get the missing her feelings. I feel like sending her a missing you text. But I know that begging isn't going to work. I know she's missing me she's stalking me on social media already. I'm stubborn, but I keep getting the idea in my head that she's waiting for me to contact her first.

Guys In need help fixing my mind. Am I right going with my guts?

 

[RangerMIke]

Go date other women and put this out of your mind. Get busy doing stuff and don;t think about her. You are right begging NEVER works... it might for a little while, but she will eventually slide right back to low interest. The only way to turn sh!t like this around is if she puts effort into you, then she will value you because she will have more respect for you.

The best way to think about this is to keep telling yourself that this is what she wants... she wants to feel attraction, and this is the ONLY way she will be interested. She will not want to be with you if she is not interested, the ONLY way she will be interested in you is if she thinks you have other options and she has to work for you.

Stay the course, go look for other women, you might find one yo like better, that should be your attitude.

 

[wifehunter]

Begging is unattractive.

Think if your girl put on 350lbs and looked like a gorrilla.

 

[CMNILS87]

Begging is unattractive.

Think if your girl put on 350lbs and looked like a gorrilla.

I go into first dates now with the idea that she had a date right before or a dlck in her mouth. Less nervousness and DGAF attitude. Think the same about your ex. She's banging someone right now as I text this. She was on a date last night and she banged a black dude.

Joking aside, begging comer from a point/frame of weakness and shows your powerless over yourself to her. The moment you text her, it'll validate her ego and she knows she can still toy with you.

 

[marmel75]

She isn't missing you trust me. She's too busy getting fvcked and sucking off her new dude or dudes.

These are all mind games to get you thinking the way you are so she can get validation that she could still have you if she wanted you.

Once she finds that out---major ego boost and ammo for her and her girlfriends to laugh about, and game over.

 

[Dingo]

Don't chase..... Replace.

Hard to do sometimes but it is the only way.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

If you do want her back (bad move) what will get her interest is seeing you having fun with a bunch of other women. If she is stalking u already that shouldn't be too hard to demonstrate. Photos of you at parties etc etc...