I've been talking to this girl at school for the past few months and she's really cool and has an awesome bubbly personality. I used to consider her out of my league (she sort of is, better looking than me + higher social status), but i started noticing in the past few weeks that she was really into me. I started developing feelings for her and she recently told my friend that she really liked me wanted to date me, which of course i was pretty happy about and i was seriously considering dating her. The thing is though this morning it was like a switch just flicked in my head and i completely lost interest in her and stopped caring what she thought. Why does this happen? The only fault i can really come up with when i think of her is that she isn't very bright and lacks some common sense (i suppose i do as well though). I just don't get why this happened and now I'm pretty damn disappointed.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
why does this happen
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It may be your ego. It happened to me before. Your ego likes to know that you could get her. If you make a move you may risk losing that status, thus your ego doesnt want it to happen.
If you think she is cute make a move dude. I wish i had done it. If you wait to long youl just lose her and be left you as lot of regret.
If you think she is cute make a move dude. I wish i had done it. If you wait to long youl just lose her and be left you as lot of regret.
She has a cute face, awesome personality, we have a fair bit in common and everyone loves her (10/10 tits as well which is a nice bonus). I'm pretty sure if I don't get with or date her i'm really going to regret it later on as well, is there any way for me to build up more attraction/interest towards her?Watawata said:
Jair213
Master Don Juan
You goal now is to get her in to bed. AND TIT Fvck her good.than said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about.Jair213 said:
for future reference how am i supposed to stop this from happening next time i want a relationship?Drook said:
Dafuk? She wants a relationship with you.than said:I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about.
Shes cute.
Great tits.
Are you gay? Go for it dude.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I commend your morals however, you're seeing a false dichotomythan said:I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about.
for future reference how am i supposed to stop this from happening next time i want a relationship?
1. break her heart after using her
2. don't get involved at all
you fail to consider option 3
3. get into a relationship with her and when it's time to break up, do something that makes her break up with you, or something neither of you will be angry about(I'm moving away, I'm gay, I'll be dead in 2 weeks and in unrelated news my completely identical twin brother hugo sanchez will be moving into town, etc.)