“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I've been talking to this girl at school for the past few months and she's really cool and has an awesome bubbly personality. I used to consider her out of my league (she sort of is, better looking than me + higher social status), but i started noticing in the past few weeks that she was really into me. I started developing feelings for her and she recently told my friend that she really liked me wanted to date me, which of course i was pretty happy about and i was seriously considering dating her. The thing is though this morning it was like a switch just flicked in my head and i completely lost interest in her and stopped caring what she thought. Why does this happen? The only fault i can really come up with when i think of her is that she isn't very bright and lacks some common sense (i suppose i do as well though). I just don't get why this happened and now I'm pretty damn disappointed.
 

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People never want what they can have. Think about when you've been pining over something for a while, dying to get it. Then once you finally get it you're bored of it in a day. Same principle.
 

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It may be your ego. It happened to me before. Your ego likes to know that you could get her. If you make a move you may risk losing that status, thus your ego doesnt want it to happen.

If you think she is cute make a move dude. I wish i had done it. If you wait to long youl just lose her and be left you as lot of regret.
 

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Watawata said:
It may be your ego. It happened to me before. Your ego likes to know that you could get her. If you make a move you may risk losing that status, thus your ego doesnt want it to happen.

If you think she is cute make a move dude. I wish i had done it. If you wait to long youl just lose her and be left you as lot of regret.
She has a cute face, awesome personality, we have a fair bit in common and everyone loves her (10/10 tits as well which is a nice bonus). I'm pretty sure if I don't get with or date her i'm really going to regret it later on as well, is there any way for me to build up more attraction/interest towards her?
 

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than said:
She has a cute face, awesome personality, we have a fair bit in common and everyone loves her (10/10 tits as well which is a nice bonus). I'm pretty sure if I don't get with or date her i'm really going to regret it later on as well, is there any way for me to build up more attraction/interest towards her?
You goal now is to get her in to bed. AND TIT Fvck her good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jair213 said:
You goal now is to get her in to bed. AND TIT Fvck her good.
I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about. :(

Drook said:
People never want what they can have. Think about when you've been pining over something for a while, dying to get it. Then once you finally get it you're bored of it in a day. Same principle.
for future reference how am i supposed to stop this from happening next time i want a relationship?
 

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than said:
I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about. :(
Dafuk? She wants a relationship with you.
Shes cute.
Great tits.

Are you gay? Go for it dude.
 

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than said:
I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about. :(



for future reference how am i supposed to stop this from happening next time i want a relationship?
I commend your morals however, you're seeing a false dichotomy

1. break her heart after using her
2. don't get involved at all

you fail to consider option 3

3. get into a relationship with her and when it's time to break up, do something that makes her break up with you, or something neither of you will be angry about(I'm moving away, I'm gay, I'll be dead in 2 weeks and in unrelated news my completely identical twin brother hugo sanchez will be moving into town, etc.)
 
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