I've been talking to this girl at school for the past few months and she's really cool and has an awesome bubbly personality. I used to consider her out of my league (she sort of is, better looking than me + higher social status), but i started noticing in the past few weeks that she was really into me. I started developing feelings for her and she recently told my friend that she really liked me wanted to date me, which of course i was pretty happy about and i was seriously considering dating her. The thing is though this morning it was like a switch just flicked in my head and i completely lost interest in her and stopped caring what she thought. Why does this happen? The only fault i can really come up with when i think of her is that she isn't very bright and lacks some common sense (i suppose i do as well though). I just don't get why this happened and now I'm pretty damn disappointed.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
why does this happen
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It may be your ego. It happened to me before. Your ego likes to know that you could get her. If you make a move you may risk losing that status, thus your ego doesnt want it to happen.
If you think she is cute make a move dude. I wish i had done it. If you wait to long youl just lose her and be left you as lot of regret.
If you think she is cute make a move dude. I wish i had done it. If you wait to long youl just lose her and be left you as lot of regret.
She has a cute face, awesome personality, we have a fair bit in common and everyone loves her (10/10 tits as well which is a nice bonus). I'm pretty sure if I don't get with or date her i'm really going to regret it later on as well, is there any way for me to build up more attraction/interest towards her?Watawata said:
Jair213
Master Don Juan
You goal now is to get her in to bed. AND TIT Fvck her good.than said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about.Jair213 said:
for future reference how am i supposed to stop this from happening next time i want a relationship?Drook said:
Dafuk? She wants a relationship with you.than said:I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about.
Shes cute.
Great tits.
Are you gay? Go for it dude.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
I commend your morals however, you're seeing a false dichotomythan said:I actually think im going to cut it off with her, she's one of the nicest, most innocent girls i know and i don't think i could use her when she wants a relationship from me. Especially when shes going through stuff with her dad right now which she trusts me enough to talk about.
for future reference how am i supposed to stop this from happening next time i want a relationship?
1. break her heart after using her
2. don't get involved at all
you fail to consider option 3
3. get into a relationship with her and when it's time to break up, do something that makes her break up with you, or something neither of you will be angry about(I'm moving away, I'm gay, I'll be dead in 2 weeks and in unrelated news my completely identical twin brother hugo sanchez will be moving into town, etc.)