"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hi,

I'm in a good relationship, however, whenever myself and my girlfriend go out in public together (despite the fact that we are holding hands/ clearly in a relationship) why do other losers look at my girl? This is my first real relationship and I cant understand why random strangers (what I call desperate perves) will look at my girl when she's clearly with me and not single? Whats the point can't they get a girl of there own (which is why they have to look at someone elses)? The reason I ask is cause consciously I am aware of it now, and its just sooo annoying and makes me feel uneasy! They don't make it blatantly obvious however I can see when they have a quick look, and sometimes they do make it obvious (but most of the time not). I just dont understand why it happens and why I fee uneasy. Most people may be happy that there girl is obviously attractive however it just gets on my nerves, its a nonsense.

I'd really appreciate any responses,

Thanks Alex
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MacDiddy

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Dude, did you just wake up from a 30 year coma?

I just can't understand that a guy like you couldn't put yourself in their shoes and derive some understanding as to why it occurs. You saying you never did it yourself?.
 
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If that bothers you. She is probally ****ing some of those guys.

Are you that stupid? People have eyes and they are using them.

Some guy is not just wondering whether a glance is "is making you feel soooo uneasy inside" they are just looking around.
 
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this has got to be a joke post, are you saying that if a HB9 walked past you on the street and she was with a guy, you've NEVER looked at her or glanced back at her to catch a second look. I'd question my sexuality if I didn't look at other attractive women while out and about.
 
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Yeh but

My girlfriend is only young (well we both are) and these looks are coming from men older enough to be her dad or even grandad is bloody disgusting thats what it is. Desperate perves indeed who can't get women themselves so really do have to perve over others. Man she's not ****ing nobody apart from me, afterall why would she? Shes got the best!!! The difference is I don't perve over women if i like a woman I make her mine not droll over her like a page 3 model, its a joke.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Different people are different. Quit hanging around the slums where people are looking for fresh meat.
 
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alexafcw said:
My girlfriend is only young (well we both are) and these looks are coming from men older enough to be her dad or even grandad is bloody disgusting thats what it is. Desperate perves indeed who can't get women themselves so really do have to perve over others. Man she's not ****ing nobody apart from me, afterall why would she? Shes got the best!!! The difference is I don't perve over women if i like a woman I make her mine not droll over her like a page 3 model, its a joke.
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man you have issues, this is a troll or a total tool.

as for the best, yeh right your jealous of other guys and its only a look man lighten up! but hey your in the zone and cant see the wood for the trees, there is no hope for you, your not after advice your after validation that your lame as* ideals are ok, well there not, at all!

Figure this out yourself or the women will most likely do it for you.
 
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Unless you too are like 10 years old or something, thye can't judge her age and they have eyes.

They could even just be looking in your direction and not perving or whatever bull**** your talking about.

Your an idiot.
 
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I know the answer!! She dresses like a hor!!!! Right?

Most women dress like hors because they are hors!!! Their dress is merely a reflection of their self and their thinking!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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alex what the hell i wrong with you dudes look that's what we do we have eyes to see the beautiful things in life now i'm mad:box:
 
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