"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why does this happen?

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Hi,

I'm in a good relationship, however, whenever myself and my girlfriend go out in public together (despite the fact that we are holding hands/ clearly in a relationship) why do other losers look at my girl? This is my first real relationship and I cant understand why random strangers (what I call desperate perves) will look at my girl when she's clearly with me and not single? Whats the point can't they get a girl of there own (which is why they have to look at someone elses)? The reason I ask is cause consciously I am aware of it now, and its just sooo annoying and makes me feel uneasy! They don't make it blatantly obvious however I can see when they have a quick look, and sometimes they do make it obvious (but most of the time not). I just dont understand why it happens and why I fee uneasy. Most people may be happy that there girl is obviously attractive however it just gets on my nerves, its a nonsense.

I'd really appreciate any responses,

Thanks Alex
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MacDiddy

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Dude, did you just wake up from a 30 year coma?

I just can't understand that a guy like you couldn't put yourself in their shoes and derive some understanding as to why it occurs. You saying you never did it yourself?.
 
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Bvbidd

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If that bothers you. She is probally ****ing some of those guys.

Are you that stupid? People have eyes and they are using them.

Some guy is not just wondering whether a glance is "is making you feel soooo uneasy inside" they are just looking around.
 
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this has got to be a joke post, are you saying that if a HB9 walked past you on the street and she was with a guy, you've NEVER looked at her or glanced back at her to catch a second look. I'd question my sexuality if I didn't look at other attractive women while out and about.
 
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Yeh but

My girlfriend is only young (well we both are) and these looks are coming from men older enough to be her dad or even grandad is bloody disgusting thats what it is. Desperate perves indeed who can't get women themselves so really do have to perve over others. Man she's not ****ing nobody apart from me, afterall why would she? Shes got the best!!! The difference is I don't perve over women if i like a woman I make her mine not droll over her like a page 3 model, its a joke.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Different people are different. Quit hanging around the slums where people are looking for fresh meat.
 
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alexafcw said:
My girlfriend is only young (well we both are) and these looks are coming from men older enough to be her dad or even grandad is bloody disgusting thats what it is. Desperate perves indeed who can't get women themselves so really do have to perve over others. Man she's not ****ing nobody apart from me, afterall why would she? Shes got the best!!! The difference is I don't perve over women if i like a woman I make her mine not droll over her like a page 3 model, its a joke.
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man you have issues, this is a troll or a total tool.

as for the best, yeh right your jealous of other guys and its only a look man lighten up! but hey your in the zone and cant see the wood for the trees, there is no hope for you, your not after advice your after validation that your lame as* ideals are ok, well there not, at all!

Figure this out yourself or the women will most likely do it for you.
 
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Unless you too are like 10 years old or something, thye can't judge her age and they have eyes.

They could even just be looking in your direction and not perving or whatever bull**** your talking about.

Your an idiot.
 
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I know the answer!! She dresses like a hor!!!! Right?

Most women dress like hors because they are hors!!! Their dress is merely a reflection of their self and their thinking!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alex what the hell i wrong with you dudes look that's what we do we have eyes to see the beautiful things in life now i'm mad:box:
 
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