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WHY does the media openly promote AFC'ism?

intrextrovert

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A wannabe rapper baked cookies? Kid should know better.

Did he at least call her a ho or something?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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erivera571

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intrextrovert said:
A wannabe rapper baked cookies? Kid should know better.

Did he at least call her a ho or something?
He did not, it was the most sorry excuse for an approach I've seen in my life ... rapper + home-baked cookies + flowers = wtf???

EPIC fail :flowers:
 

Derek Flint

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Ross Jeffries, Ranko "Shark" Magami and "Badboy" all covered this subject years ago.

Basically, the media wants guys to kiss women's asses.

To buy them things, to take them out and spend money on them, to buy expensive cars to impress them, etc...

Now, I have nothing against making money and spending it, but the media has spent a lot of time and effort getting guys to buy into the myth that they need to "buy" women and to buy things to make themselves more desirable.

It keeps their business interests moving. Movies, flowers, restaurants, cars, diamonds, etc...

Then there is the whole subject of the media feminizing the modern male for a variety of reasons which have been covered on this and other forums.

On the flip side, the media sells women and image they must strive for, and impossible image but women will literally starve themselves, get dangerous plastic surgery, eat and throw up, etc...in order to attain this image.

Cosmetics, hair coloring, must have the latest clothes/fashions, etc...

Either gotta work for it or find some guy to spend the money on them.

Again, I'm a capitalist and proud of it, but I've had my eyes opened by the above named PUA's regarding the whole cycle of spending money on women deal and kissing their asses and why it's for suckers.

Go to a bar/club and see how many guys are buying girls drinks thinking it will get them laid.

Rarely does it happen, yet its a cliché that the media repeats over and over, just like bringing a girl flowers.
 

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I feel bad, I abused a AFC last night haha, this dude was hitting on this chick I was with, and basically I made him go request a song I wanted, and also go buy me a coke. ._.
He was trying to chat her up all night and thanks to this site I knew exactly what was going on and what do and everything.




She went home with me.
 

erivera571

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King Turi said:
I feel bad, I abused a AFC last night haha, this dude was hitting on this chick I was with, and basically I made him go request a song I wanted, and also go buy me a coke. ._.
He was trying to chat her up all night and thanks to this site I knew exactly what was going on and what do and everything.




She went home with me.
niiiiiice, goes to show you some people are clueless
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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