"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WHY does the media openly promote AFC'ism?

intrextrovert

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A wannabe rapper baked cookies? Kid should know better.

Did he at least call her a ho or something?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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erivera571

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intrextrovert said:
A wannabe rapper baked cookies? Kid should know better.

Did he at least call her a ho or something?
He did not, it was the most sorry excuse for an approach I've seen in my life ... rapper + home-baked cookies + flowers = wtf???

EPIC fail :flowers:
 

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Ross Jeffries, Ranko "Shark" Magami and "Badboy" all covered this subject years ago.

Basically, the media wants guys to kiss women's asses.

To buy them things, to take them out and spend money on them, to buy expensive cars to impress them, etc...

Now, I have nothing against making money and spending it, but the media has spent a lot of time and effort getting guys to buy into the myth that they need to "buy" women and to buy things to make themselves more desirable.

It keeps their business interests moving. Movies, flowers, restaurants, cars, diamonds, etc...

Then there is the whole subject of the media feminizing the modern male for a variety of reasons which have been covered on this and other forums.

On the flip side, the media sells women and image they must strive for, and impossible image but women will literally starve themselves, get dangerous plastic surgery, eat and throw up, etc...in order to attain this image.

Cosmetics, hair coloring, must have the latest clothes/fashions, etc...

Either gotta work for it or find some guy to spend the money on them.

Again, I'm a capitalist and proud of it, but I've had my eyes opened by the above named PUA's regarding the whole cycle of spending money on women deal and kissing their asses and why it's for suckers.

Go to a bar/club and see how many guys are buying girls drinks thinking it will get them laid.

Rarely does it happen, yet its a cliché that the media repeats over and over, just like bringing a girl flowers.
 

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I feel bad, I abused a AFC last night haha, this dude was hitting on this chick I was with, and basically I made him go request a song I wanted, and also go buy me a coke. ._.
He was trying to chat her up all night and thanks to this site I knew exactly what was going on and what do and everything.




She went home with me.
 

erivera571

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King Turi said:
I feel bad, I abused a AFC last night haha, this dude was hitting on this chick I was with, and basically I made him go request a song I wanted, and also go buy me a coke. ._.
He was trying to chat her up all night and thanks to this site I knew exactly what was going on and what do and everything.




She went home with me.
niiiiiice, goes to show you some people are clueless
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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