Why does oral sex tailor off?

[Murk]

I was thinking today about never giving a proper facial to a women when it hit me… “all my ex girlfriends slowly stopped sucking my **** as much as time went on”.

I don’t mean the stories of women refusing BJs when married or after a few years. I would still get random bjs without asking, and never denied when I asked for head. But the enthusiasm, the morning bjs 90% of the time, they stop after a while.

Why is this? It’s not a hygiene thing or a grooming thing. Is it because they have to put less effort once you commit? Once they know there’s no risk some other chick might be sucking it. Do they realise ill never nut only from oral so eventually give up?

Anyone experience this and have an explanation?

 

[Divorced w 3]

Get her a vibrator and then you work on her with it as you stand next to her and she works on you. She won’t be able to stop.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The initial thrill is gone.

 

[2Rocky]

For me it is a great precursor to the actual PIV act and I think it takes a little sensitivity away from Mr Johnson. Of course I keep my tongue game up too. I don't ever ask for extended sessions where she is gonna get lockjaw, and I don't initiate it when I've got swamp crotch from working all day. If you over do it, she's gonna resent it.

BTW it's "taper off"

 

[f(x)]

In my experience BJs are a good indicator of interest. After she stops swallowing the shït tests start becoming more obvious and head frequency lessens. Then she stops shaving her once exquisitely manicured couch. Then she becomes distant, at which point I should take the hint.

 

[The Duke]

When she gets what she wants(the relationship) she slowly stops doing those things. They all do it to some extent. It's why you don't ever marry, and try not to move one in.

Men get in relationships hoping she will never change. Women get in relationships hoping she can change him. The more you commit to one, the more power you give away and more bullschit you deal with.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

The same guys that complain about lack of bjs are the same guys that say “eating pvssy” is beta lol

 

[f(x)]

In my experience BJs are a good indicator of interest. After she stops swallowing the shït tests start becoming more obvious and head frequency lessens. Then she stops shaving her once exquisitely manicured couch. Then she becomes distant, at which point I should take the hint.

I meant cooch. Not couch. Autocorrect oversight. Can’t seem to edit post.

 

[jimwho]

I meant cooch. Not couch. Autocorrect oversight. Can’t seem to edit post.

I don't believe there is a correct spelling for Kooch/cooch/couch. Especially if she's pinning your head down with it.

 

[Murk]

In my experience BJs are a good indicator of interest. After she stops swallowing the shït tests start becoming more obvious and head frequency lessens. Then she stops shaving her once exquisitely manicured couch. Then she becomes distant, at which point I should take the hint.

Do you get women swallowing your nut 1st or 2nd date?

Im really going to push my sexuality and ram it down their throats literally and figuratively. I’m in the best shape of my life and the most mature/figured out I’ve ever been. I want facials and come swallowing.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

. Is it because they have to put less effort once you commit?

You sort of answered your own question here.

Yes, because over time women loses interest faster than men and once you are exclusive she no longer need to put in the effort because in her mind you are now the dependent on her as the only source of sex.

 

[threeforfree]

It helps if you don't fart in front of them.

 

[threeforfree]

I don't believe there is a correct spelling for Kooch/cooch/couch. Especially if she's pinning your head down with it.

"Cooch" is apparently interchangeable with "couch" in Australia.

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[f(x)]

Do you get women swallowing your nut 1st or 2nd date?

I usually get laid by the 3rd date. I go down on her, then fûck her. I do this without expecting a BJ in return. Then sometime later when we are on the couch (haha) watching TV she will get on her knees and start blowing me. I tell her it feels good and that I’m about to cüm. Then I nut in her mouth and she’ll swallow. After that she gives me a “naughty” smile.

This has been my experience with short/long term plates. Hasn’t happened with ONS. Invariably, the enthusiasm will lessen over time until she quits.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

It helps if you don't fart in front of them.

Ha ha ha lmfao point taken!

"Cooch" is apparently interchangeable with "couch" in Australia.

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Ha ha that is fricking epic..

 

[Barrister]

When she gets what she wants(the relationship) she slowly stops doing those things. They all do it to some extent. It's why you don't ever marry, and try not to move one in.

Men get in relationships hoping she will never change. Women get in relationships hoping she can change him. The more you commit to one, the more power you give away and more bullschit you deal with.

I think this is pretty spot on. The whole being "good in bed" thing being some magic to keeping her enthusiastic is overblown. I think down to a T every woman I have had a LTR with has told me at the beginning that I am "the best lover" they have ever had. I am making them cvm multiple times during sex at the beginning of the relationship. And I continue to make them cvm throughout the relationship.

Despite that, the sex in general tapers off no matter how mind blowing it is to start. Does it help to be able to make her cvm? Absolutely. But the more secure she is the less crazy she is going to be in bed. Basically a law of attraction with no exceptions.

 

[Jor-El]

It helps if you don't fart in front of them.

Wether this was in jest or not,its true. So many people have repulsive personal habits there for all to see. You want your partner to fancy you...belching,farting,stinking out the toilet blah blah,yeah we all do it,and men tend to find it funny but! Time & a place...its not helping you in the fanciable stakes carrying on like this in front of someone you love/wanna f**k

 

[pipeman84]

But the more secure she is the less crazy she is going to be in bed.

This doesn't sound right, if we're talking about healthy, relationship oriented women. It sounds like the problem stems from the man losing frame and consequently her respect for him diminishing.
If you're referring to women with plenty relationships on their CV and with guys who cheated on them, then yeah, it makes sense.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Do you get women swallowing your nut 1st or 2nd date?

Im really going to push my sexuality and ram it down their throats literally and figuratively. I’m in the best shape of my life and the most mature/figured out I’ve ever been. I want facials and come swallowing.

yes. even though it’s not my thing.

 

[jimwho]

"Cooch" is apparently interchangeable with "couch" in Australia.

That's hilarious. I'm glad the couch is so close to the love seat for convenience.