"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why does life work this way?

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MurdocIsGod

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. My female friend with over 9000 guys interested in her likes me, but I don't see her in that way

. I like her best friend whom NOBODY is interested in, but she doesn't see me in that way

Why? Just why :confused:

Guys literally cry over the girl who likes me (we're all in the same social circle and these guys are mates of mine), I've really tried to see her in a romantic way but it's REALLY not gonna happen (though I've had sex with her)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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J. Darko

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Read some Tolle bro.

I thought you hated PUA. Son, I am disappoint.
 
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J. Darko said:
Read some Tolle bro.

I thought you hated PUA. Son, I am disappoint.
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Hey Johnnie Darko :)

I understand your inside joke references :p we are the illuminati.
 
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Ok, because you are not offended easily, and I like that, I'm going to reply for real.

It f'cking sucks, I know the feeling, but I also know that you forget her if you meet a girl that is even more awesome than the girl you like now.
 
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J. Darko said:
Ok, because you are not offended easily, and I like that, I'm going to reply for real.

It f'cking sucks, I know the feeling, but I also know that you forget her if you meet a girl that is even more awesome than the girl you like now.
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Thanks for the encouragement :) But yeah it's kinda tough because I have to see her often and because she's now in a relationship with some other guy, but nevermind
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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It's funny, she has 9000 guys after her but wants you? Hmmm.. why? Because you're not all AFC. You're a challenge. She sees value in you over the puppy dogs. The rules at work.
 
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Meeting a girl who is even more awesome makes you instantly forget less awesome girls. It's simple and effective.

Keep meeting more and more awesome girls.
 
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