"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why does life work this way?

MurdocIsGod

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. My female friend with over 9000 guys interested in her likes me, but I don't see her in that way

. I like her best friend whom NOBODY is interested in, but she doesn't see me in that way

Why? Just why :confused:

Guys literally cry over the girl who likes me (we're all in the same social circle and these guys are mates of mine), I've really tried to see her in a romantic way but it's REALLY not gonna happen (though I've had sex with her)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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J. Darko

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Read some Tolle bro.

I thought you hated PUA. Son, I am disappoint.
 

MurdocIsGod

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J. Darko said:
Read some Tolle bro.

I thought you hated PUA. Son, I am disappoint.
Hey Johnnie Darko :)

I understand your inside joke references :p we are the illuminati.
 

J. Darko

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Ok, because you are not offended easily, and I like that, I'm going to reply for real.

It f'cking sucks, I know the feeling, but I also know that you forget her if you meet a girl that is even more awesome than the girl you like now.
 

MurdocIsGod

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J. Darko said:
Ok, because you are not offended easily, and I like that, I'm going to reply for real.

It f'cking sucks, I know the feeling, but I also know that you forget her if you meet a girl that is even more awesome than the girl you like now.
Thanks for the encouragement :) But yeah it's kinda tough because I have to see her often and because she's now in a relationship with some other guy, but nevermind
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Johnnyventana

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It's funny, she has 9000 guys after her but wants you? Hmmm.. why? Because you're not all AFC. You're a challenge. She sees value in you over the puppy dogs. The rules at work.
 

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Meeting a girl who is even more awesome makes you instantly forget less awesome girls. It's simple and effective.

Keep meeting more and more awesome girls.
 
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