"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why Does Hugh Hefner Get Married?

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I can't fathom why Hugh Hefner would ever get married, yet he's been engaged to two women(I think) in the last 5 years. He makes a lot of money, he is famous, he has a lot of options, the list goes on. I just can't wrap my head around why a guy in his position would want to get married while Oprah absolutely refuses to get married.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LOL...it is one of those situations that boggles the mind, isn't it? He has the lifestyle that practically every man dreams of: wealth, fame, countless gorgeous women around vying for his attention. But I can imagine that that would get old after a few years (more like 20), and some do want to settle down. But could you imagine all the freeloaders, all the people with their hands out?. I mean, can you imagine how many women are after him for his cash? I guess a man in his position wants to find someone who loves him for more than his status and wealth, which you know has to be hard to find, especially for someone his age.
 

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I may be mistaken, but I thought he broke up with the one he was engaged to like 2 years ago, then got 3 new girlfriends, and just now ended all of those.

I could be wrong...
 

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He just wants to check a few boxes on his bucket list.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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In the end, we just want someone to truly love us.
 

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"There isn't a MAN on this earth that wouldn't give his left nut to be Hugh Hefner at any age" --Gene Simmons
 

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jarworpar said:
I mean, can you imagine how many women are after him for his cash? I guess a man in his position wants to find someone who loves him for more than his status and wealth, which you know has to be hard to find, especially for someone his age.
Look at J. Howard Marshall! If you're old and wealthy, women will overlook how you look and try to get knocked up on purpose.

If I was rich and famous, I would make sure that I protect myself and if I get married, I'll damn f**kin' sure get an airtight prenup!
 

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nismo-4 said:
Look at J. Howard Marshall! If you're old and wealthy, women will overlook how you look and try to get knocked up on purpose.

If I was rich and famous, I would make sure that I protect myself and if I get married, I'll damn f**kin' sure get an airtight prenup!
LOL...exactly. If you're old AND WEALTHY. How many hot 20-somethings do you know who want to marry an old guy for his wealth of experience and stimulating conversation alone?
 

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I wonder what Hef's lawyer charges him for his pre-nups?

Sidenote....Kimberly Conrad was one of the most beautiful women I had ever seen, moreso naked. I about cried for my mommy when I saw her photo shoot!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think that he was really taken for a ride and betrayed by Kimberly Conrad, so I think he wanted to get married just so that when he passes, his estate won't be so "availible" to the mother of his kids. That, and he wanted to get back at Holly for dumping him as well.
 

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Young teenage boys in America and England will believe anything. Seriously, go thank a soldier because if not for them you would be living like they do in Sweden. Sweden doesn't really have a military. No wars. No sides. They are neutral. And they have it tough there. So says Fox News.
 

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BigJimbo said:
Young teenage boys in America and England will believe anything. Seriously, go thank a soldier because if not for them you would be living like they do in Sweden. Sweden doesn't really have a military. No wars. No sides. They are neutral. And they have it tough there. So says Fox News.
What the hell does that have to do with anything? Are you on drugs?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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