"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why does girls play games?

Blender2

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Girls love to play games, they say. And I've noticed this, but sometimes I wonder why and what it means. I've been flirting with a girl for some months now, and there's one game that seems to be repeated in eternity. When everything has gone well for a while she seems to get tired of that and starts flirting with other guys, especially in front of me. My usual response is that I ignore her for a while, and start having fun with others, when possible. Sometimes I also act a little annoyed with her. When I do the ignore-thing she seem to get insecure and nervous, and after a while tries to fill the gap between us. The "make up" is always wonderful and at those times she's so happy I suspect she's in love.. When I act a little annoyed/reject her, she seem to get turned on by this. Sometimes she has rubbed her tits on me after I've rejected her. Can someone explain why girls need to play those silly games?? Is it to check my reaction when she's flirting with others, and when I react she knows I'm still attracted to her??
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Gustav Yavo

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Simple girls like drama and attention. Sometimes, yes if the girl likes you, and you're not making any moves she may try to get you jealous so you get off your azz, but usually its just because they dig the attention.

Careful though, your reaction is what she will base. So don't become a "jealous" type kind of guy, if you think she legit in trying to get you to make a move, when she talking to another guy, go in and kiss her infront of them, or go in whisper in her ear, say something to make her follow you, take her to a more secluded area, and kiss the b!tch.

Also when you ignore her, you are playing hard to get. Making her chase you, which demonstrates in her eyes that you're of high value. She'll want you because you're demonstrating that you don't need her.
 

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If you're flirting with her for MONTHS and you're not making any moves......... she's going to talk to other guys. Especially in front of you to let you know that and notice it. It are no games.
 

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Guys play games too.
 
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1) because they are fun
2) because its an emotional roller coaster ride (as i think pook called it) which girls crave. sounds like your doing a good job man!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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