Girls love to play games, they say. And I've noticed this, but sometimes I wonder why and what it means. I've been flirting with a girl for some months now, and there's one game that seems to be repeated in eternity. When everything has gone well for a while she seems to get tired of that and starts flirting with other guys, especially in front of me. My usual response is that I ignore her for a while, and start having fun with others, when possible. Sometimes I also act a little annoyed with her. When I do the ignore-thing she seem to get insecure and nervous, and after a while tries to fill the gap between us. The "make up" is always wonderful and at those times she's so happy I suspect she's in love.. When I act a little annoyed/reject her, she seem to get turned on by this. Sometimes she has rubbed her tits on me after I've rejected her. Can someone explain why girls need to play those silly games?? Is it to check my reaction when she's flirting with others, and when I react she knows I'm still attracted to her??
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Why does girls play games?
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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Simple girls like drama and attention. Sometimes, yes if the girl likes you, and you're not making any moves she may try to get you jealous so you get off your azz, but usually its just because they dig the attention.
Careful though, your reaction is what she will base. So don't become a "jealous" type kind of guy, if you think she legit in trying to get you to make a move, when she talking to another guy, go in and kiss her infront of them, or go in whisper in her ear, say something to make her follow you, take her to a more secluded area, and kiss the b!tch.
Also when you ignore her, you are playing hard to get. Making her chase you, which demonstrates in her eyes that you're of high value. She'll want you because you're demonstrating that you don't need her.
Careful though, your reaction is what she will base. So don't become a "jealous" type kind of guy, if you think she legit in trying to get you to make a move, when she talking to another guy, go in and kiss her infront of them, or go in whisper in her ear, say something to make her follow you, take her to a more secluded area, and kiss the b!tch.
Also when you ignore her, you are playing hard to get. Making her chase you, which demonstrates in her eyes that you're of high value. She'll want you because you're demonstrating that you don't need her.
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If you're flirting with her for MONTHS and you're not making any moves......... she's going to talk to other guys. Especially in front of you to let you know that and notice it. It are no games.
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1) because they are fun
2) because its an emotional roller coaster ride (as i think pook called it) which girls crave. sounds like your doing a good job man!
2) because its an emotional roller coaster ride (as i think pook called it) which girls crave. sounds like your doing a good job man!
