Girls love to play games, they say. And I've noticed this, but sometimes I wonder why and what it means. I've been flirting with a girl for some months now, and there's one game that seems to be repeated in eternity. When everything has gone well for a while she seems to get tired of that and starts flirting with other guys, especially in front of me. My usual response is that I ignore her for a while, and start having fun with others, when possible. Sometimes I also act a little annoyed with her. When I do the ignore-thing she seem to get insecure and nervous, and after a while tries to fill the gap between us. The "make up" is always wonderful and at those times she's so happy I suspect she's in love.. When I act a little annoyed/reject her, she seem to get turned on by this. Sometimes she has rubbed her tits on me after I've rejected her. Can someone explain why girls need to play those silly games?? Is it to check my reaction when she's flirting with others, and when I react she knows I'm still attracted to her??
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why does girls play games?
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