"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why does girls play games?

Blender2

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Girls love to play games, they say. And I've noticed this, but sometimes I wonder why and what it means. I've been flirting with a girl for some months now, and there's one game that seems to be repeated in eternity. When everything has gone well for a while she seems to get tired of that and starts flirting with other guys, especially in front of me. My usual response is that I ignore her for a while, and start having fun with others, when possible. Sometimes I also act a little annoyed with her. When I do the ignore-thing she seem to get insecure and nervous, and after a while tries to fill the gap between us. The "make up" is always wonderful and at those times she's so happy I suspect she's in love.. When I act a little annoyed/reject her, she seem to get turned on by this. Sometimes she has rubbed her tits on me after I've rejected her. Can someone explain why girls need to play those silly games?? Is it to check my reaction when she's flirting with others, and when I react she knows I'm still attracted to her??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Gustav Yavo

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Simple girls like drama and attention. Sometimes, yes if the girl likes you, and you're not making any moves she may try to get you jealous so you get off your azz, but usually its just because they dig the attention.

Careful though, your reaction is what she will base. So don't become a "jealous" type kind of guy, if you think she legit in trying to get you to make a move, when she talking to another guy, go in and kiss her infront of them, or go in whisper in her ear, say something to make her follow you, take her to a more secluded area, and kiss the b!tch.

Also when you ignore her, you are playing hard to get. Making her chase you, which demonstrates in her eyes that you're of high value. She'll want you because you're demonstrating that you don't need her.
 

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If you're flirting with her for MONTHS and you're not making any moves......... she's going to talk to other guys. Especially in front of you to let you know that and notice it. It are no games.
 

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Guys play games too.
 
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1) because they are fun
2) because its an emotional roller coaster ride (as i think pook called it) which girls crave. sounds like your doing a good job man!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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