"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why does everyone treat each other like sh1t here?

SamTheHobit

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I mean don't you guys think we get enough flack in the real world.

Lets try and be civil especially in the Mature man section.

Sure its fun too call someone an a55hole here but its not necessary just because you don't agree.

If I am sounding like a white knight here feel free to tell me to fvck off.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Married Buried

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You sound like a real fag. Being "mean" to each other is really just manning up and having a conversation like Alphas. We are not here to suck each others **** like you seem to need.
 

SamTheHobit

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Malice said:
You sound like a real fag. Being "mean" to each other is really just manning up and having a conversation like Alphas. We are not here to suck each others **** like you seem to need.
Yeah you're right I wanna suck everyone's d1ck.
 

TheStig

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I agree with you (OP) to a point. Sometimes I get the feeling people are unnecessarily harsh, just because someone doesn't agree with different viewpoints. Although sometimes harshness is needed because some people do say some of the dumbest sh1t.

But, what do you expect? It's an anonymous internet forum, so who really cares. You don't know them, they don't know you. There's no reason you should be bothered by this.

That's why you gotta sift through all the BS to find what is useful to you.
 
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Jaylan

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OP, its the internet. On the internet people can be rude without consequence and thus feel free to do so. In real life most of these people would keep their mouths shut rather than face public scorn or a beat down for being rude to the wrong person.

Also, do realize its about moderating too. The moderation team here seems to allow a fair bit of immaturity and flaming that I dont see allowed on some other forums I frequent. It really depends on the message board. The atmosphere is different depending on the audience and moderation team.

That said, I do agree the Mature Man section should be a bit more mature. But at the end of the day, like TheStig said, you shouldnt really give a damn. Its the internet, these people dont matter, and they likely wouldnt dare disrespect you in the same way during a face to face conversation.
Malice said:
You sound like a real fag. Being "mean" to each other is really just manning up and having a conversation like Alphas. We are not here to suck each others **** like you seem to need.
Yet the guys who speak like "alphas" to other men in real life, are the guys who end up beaten up rather quickly. Thats what Ive seen happen to dudes with big disrespectful yappers. In reality, youre not being alpha, but just a rude jerk-off. If the way some guys speak on this forum was so "alpha" Id see them being leaders of men and layers of women in the real world. In actuality, I see rude tards getting their asses kicked or people avoiding talking to them.

A man can be confident, stern, blunt, while getting his point across and still being respectful. Being a rude troglodyte only gets you so far. Which is why you see so much more of that behavior on the internet and not in the real world. People who react like you have are not taken too seriously off the internet.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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speed dawg

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A few guys here are cowards - they have too much to prove. They can't just state their opinion and let others disagree. They must prove why they are right and when things don't go their way, they get vicious/personal/whatever. The create strawman arguments and so on. We've probably all been guilty of it, but some do it more than others.

Plus, here lately more sensitive issues have come up. Trayvon Martin, etc. It's almost like we are a reflection of the media.
 

Mike32ct

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I never understood the "pissing matches" on here. Perhaps guys are taking their women frustrations out ON EACH OTHER.

But anyway, we're just sharing opinions. It's not that important. It's not personal either. Discussions and debates should be interesting and fun. Fortunately, most of the time, they are.
 

Epimanes

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As of late I don't think anyones being uncivil. When I first got here there was some over inflated internet egos floating around ruffling feathers but for the most part (from my experience) things are fine here. If someone disagrees with me, I'm fine with that.. I don't need to waste valuable time and energy arguing I just carry on. :)

I am alpha .. HEAR ME RAWR! Lol ....
 

Create Reality

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I can't agree with any of this, my alpha ego prevents it. I don't even know why I read other ppl's words! My opinion to far too advanced and unrefutable to even be put on display!! How the **** will my followers ever be capable of my displays of manhood !!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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