"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've been looking for some sex finding sites so i could play around on them and maybe find a lay or two, but everyone i see makes you start out as some dumb account where you cant even do anything but be there, and only let you do things if you sign up as a "full" member.

it's really irritating! i dont want to have to pay to get layed. why does sex always have a price on it?

are there any free ones online? besides myspace and what not?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For everything the west gives, it exacts the same price in return.



To answer your question, perhaps because the people who run those sites are in business and they must make an income; do you have job? If so, do you go in and work without expecting to get paid. ]

Why don't you spend some money on yourself? Invest in yourself, as in working on your game, your look, your attitude, your skill set, then you won't have to be paying to play.

No dough, no show!
 

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Why does every alcoholic have to pay if he goes to the liquor store?

Why does the pervert have to pay if he wants sex?

Why does the chronic smoker have to pay for his cancer stix?
 

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Adult Friend Finder does not work unless you call hooking up with a fat and fugly chick a success story.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Vlad the Impaler said:
How about craigslist? I have made contact with females and met one off there. It's free.
The fat and fugly ones.

Maybe it's where I live... (Long Island, New York) but I've never had any success come out of there
 
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guywhoneedshelp said:
The fat and fugly ones.

Maybe it's where I live... (Long Island, New York) but I've never had any success come out of there


Actually the girl I met was hot. The problem was my smooth online game did NOT transfer into real life and I never got anywhere with her. In retrospect I could have nailed her if I knew what I was doing. I think I'll give it another try..

***types craigslist.com into browser
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
Actually the girl I met was hot. The problem was my smooth online game did NOT transfer into real life and I never got anywhere with her. In retrospect I could have nailed her if I knew what I was doing. I think I'll give it another try..

***types craigslist.com into browser
Girls 18-21 around here are weird...it's not like the west coast.
 
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Girls 18-21 around here are weird...it's not like the west coast.
Sure buddy keep making excuses... the truth is a DJ with good game would have no problems scoring off craigslist.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Vlad the Impaler said:
Sure buddy keep making excuses... the truth is a DJ with good game would have no problems scoring off craigslist.
I live in a very conservative area in which no girls are posting personals on craigslist unless they are the fat and fugly's

No excuses
 

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If you are paying for porno online you dont know how to use the internet.. FACT!!!!!.. LOL I dont pay for any digital media anymore its all free.

oh and the rate at which sex sells is directly tied to the level of desperation of males...
 
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DonGorgon said:
If you are paying for porno online you dont know hot to use the internet.. FACT!!!!!.. LOL I dont pay for any digital media anymore its all free.

oh and the rate at which sex sells is directly tied to the level of desperation of males...
Right, except, he wasn't talking about online porn or digital media.
 

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DonGorgon said:
If you are paying for porno online you dont know hot to use the internet.. FACT!!!!!.. LOL I dont pay for any digital media anymore its all free.

oh and the rate at which sex sells is directly tied to the level of desperation of males...

EXACTLY!!!!
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
For everything the west gives, it exacts the same price in return.



To answer your question, perhaps because the people who run those sites are in business and they must make an income; do you have job? If so, do you go in and work without expecting to get paid. ]

Why don't you spend some money on yourself? Invest in yourself, as in working on your game, your look, your attitude, your skill set, then you won't have to be paying to play.

No dough, no show!
Dude, you're 34. Have you not learned by now how to get sex without paying for it? There's a "meat market" type bar in EVERY city where even those with NO game can get laid; find out where yours is and pay it a visit tonight.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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