"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why does every sex site make you pay?

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I've been looking for some sex finding sites so i could play around on them and maybe find a lay or two, but everyone i see makes you start out as some dumb account where you cant even do anything but be there, and only let you do things if you sign up as a "full" member.

it's really irritating! i dont want to have to pay to get layed. why does sex always have a price on it?

are there any free ones online? besides myspace and what not?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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For everything the west gives, it exacts the same price in return.



To answer your question, perhaps because the people who run those sites are in business and they must make an income; do you have job? If so, do you go in and work without expecting to get paid. ]

Why don't you spend some money on yourself? Invest in yourself, as in working on your game, your look, your attitude, your skill set, then you won't have to be paying to play.

No dough, no show!
 

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Why does every alcoholic have to pay if he goes to the liquor store?

Why does the pervert have to pay if he wants sex?

Why does the chronic smoker have to pay for his cancer stix?
 

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Adult Friend Finder does not work unless you call hooking up with a fat and fugly chick a success story.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Vlad the Impaler said:
How about craigslist? I have made contact with females and met one off there. It's free.
The fat and fugly ones.

Maybe it's where I live... (Long Island, New York) but I've never had any success come out of there
 
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guywhoneedshelp said:
The fat and fugly ones.

Maybe it's where I live... (Long Island, New York) but I've never had any success come out of there


Actually the girl I met was hot. The problem was my smooth online game did NOT transfer into real life and I never got anywhere with her. In retrospect I could have nailed her if I knew what I was doing. I think I'll give it another try..

***types craigslist.com into browser
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
Actually the girl I met was hot. The problem was my smooth online game did NOT transfer into real life and I never got anywhere with her. In retrospect I could have nailed her if I knew what I was doing. I think I'll give it another try..

***types craigslist.com into browser
Girls 18-21 around here are weird...it's not like the west coast.
 
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guywhoneedshelp said:
Girls 18-21 around here are weird...it's not like the west coast.
Sure buddy keep making excuses... the truth is a DJ with good game would have no problems scoring off craigslist.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Vlad the Impaler said:
Sure buddy keep making excuses... the truth is a DJ with good game would have no problems scoring off craigslist.
I live in a very conservative area in which no girls are posting personals on craigslist unless they are the fat and fugly's

No excuses
 

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If you are paying for porno online you dont know how to use the internet.. FACT!!!!!.. LOL I dont pay for any digital media anymore its all free.

oh and the rate at which sex sells is directly tied to the level of desperation of males...
 
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DonGorgon said:
If you are paying for porno online you dont know hot to use the internet.. FACT!!!!!.. LOL I dont pay for any digital media anymore its all free.

oh and the rate at which sex sells is directly tied to the level of desperation of males...
Right, except, he wasn't talking about online porn or digital media.
 

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DonGorgon said:
If you are paying for porno online you dont know hot to use the internet.. FACT!!!!!.. LOL I dont pay for any digital media anymore its all free.

oh and the rate at which sex sells is directly tied to the level of desperation of males...

EXACTLY!!!!
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
For everything the west gives, it exacts the same price in return.



To answer your question, perhaps because the people who run those sites are in business and they must make an income; do you have job? If so, do you go in and work without expecting to get paid. ]

Why don't you spend some money on yourself? Invest in yourself, as in working on your game, your look, your attitude, your skill set, then you won't have to be paying to play.

No dough, no show!
Dude, you're 34. Have you not learned by now how to get sex without paying for it? There's a "meat market" type bar in EVERY city where even those with NO game can get laid; find out where yours is and pay it a visit tonight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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