"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do you want a girl?

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Hey! Why do a lot of people (including me up till now) so desperately want a girl? What I want in life are two things:
Comfort and fun.
If something I'm doing isn't giving me one of these now I'll stop doing it. So why should I be nice to girls and try to win them over if it isn't fun or comfortable? Feeling her, smelling her even jokeing around with her is a lot more fun!
No, I'm not an expert on this, I am a virgin, never kissed a girl, 16 years old and it's all thanks to spending too much time trying to figure girls out.
Do you wanna test this? Get drunk. Just once, and not so much that you through up or start smashing things.
You'll notice that you stop doing **** for future comfort or fun, and instead for present comfort or fun.
i don't want a girl or girlfriend anymore, instead I'm doing **** that I have to do to stay comfortable (like schoolwork, work, eat, sleep whatever) and also stuff thats exciting and fun. Life's too short to spend it on tomorow.
No, liffe isn't great, it can be pretty ****y, but what do you expect?
All you are is a huge chemical reaction. You have no right to happines, so get as much as possible while you can!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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security is why people want girlfriends.
tip: best relationships appear when you're *not* looking for a relationship.
the point of this site it so be happy with yourself and the girls will follow. if you cant be happy with yourself, how can u expect someone else to be?
 

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i want a girl so i can see if these kegel exerices that im doing are working
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WoW!
What a fun thread!
And yes, I did have too much to drink:yes:
Oh, and the guy thingy, that was great. HAve to remember that for some time.
Thanks for the entertainment.:woo:
 

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one big thing is so you not lonley and gettin wit girls is fun a challenge something new. and if you have no reason for wantin a girl probley means ur gay. not sayin you are but its not good to be a guy and have no desire for any girl
 

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I don't believe most of what I wrote there anymore. I change my mind fast:p
I'm definitely not gay, and hot girls definitely make me... you know.
And guys don't. Hell, I can't even tell if a guy is attractive or not and I doubt any guy can, for that matter (unless he's gay:rolleyes: )
What I guess I meant was that I don't NEED a girl to have fun and be happy, but if I see or somehow come in contact with an attractive chick, I definitely want her. "Want" meaning have sex with, make out, be her boyfriend, depending on the girl^^.

Just to clarify this stupid thread;) .
 
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