"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Why do you want a girl?

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Hey! Why do a lot of people (including me up till now) so desperately want a girl? What I want in life are two things:
Comfort and fun.
If something I'm doing isn't giving me one of these now I'll stop doing it. So why should I be nice to girls and try to win them over if it isn't fun or comfortable? Feeling her, smelling her even jokeing around with her is a lot more fun!
No, I'm not an expert on this, I am a virgin, never kissed a girl, 16 years old and it's all thanks to spending too much time trying to figure girls out.
Do you wanna test this? Get drunk. Just once, and not so much that you through up or start smashing things.
You'll notice that you stop doing **** for future comfort or fun, and instead for present comfort or fun.
i don't want a girl or girlfriend anymore, instead I'm doing **** that I have to do to stay comfortable (like schoolwork, work, eat, sleep whatever) and also stuff thats exciting and fun. Life's too short to spend it on tomorow.
No, liffe isn't great, it can be pretty ****y, but what do you expect?
All you are is a huge chemical reaction. You have no right to happines, so get as much as possible while you can!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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security is why people want girlfriends.
tip: best relationships appear when you're *not* looking for a relationship.
the point of this site it so be happy with yourself and the girls will follow. if you cant be happy with yourself, how can u expect someone else to be?
 
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i want a girl so i can see if these kegel exerices that im doing are working
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WoW!
What a fun thread!
And yes, I did have too much to drink:yes:
Oh, and the guy thingy, that was great. HAve to remember that for some time.
Thanks for the entertainment.:woo:
 
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one big thing is so you not lonley and gettin wit girls is fun a challenge something new. and if you have no reason for wantin a girl probley means ur gay. not sayin you are but its not good to be a guy and have no desire for any girl
 
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I don't believe most of what I wrote there anymore. I change my mind fast:p
I'm definitely not gay, and hot girls definitely make me... you know.
And guys don't. Hell, I can't even tell if a guy is attractive or not and I doubt any guy can, for that matter (unless he's gay:rolleyes: )
What I guess I meant was that I don't NEED a girl to have fun and be happy, but if I see or somehow come in contact with an attractive chick, I definitely want her. "Want" meaning have sex with, make out, be her boyfriend, depending on the girl^^.

Just to clarify this stupid thread;) .
 
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