"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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why do you like me?

kingofnewbie

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if a girl ask you why you like her? and your real reason is to have sex w/ her or just for experience how the hell do you answer it?personally i think its a dumb question but want to know how a DJ would deal w/ it
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JonJack

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Answer her honestly. That you like her because she's a girl and she's attractive.

Don't waste time on girls that expect you to like them for whatever romantic and sweet reasons when the two of you are not even in a serious relaitonship yet.
 

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Tell her becuase she's attractive and she's fun to be around... Lie if you can't think of anything.. Jeez
 

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I've been asked the same question once by a girl. Below was my reply. Pretty good results only because it was consistent with my routine and that I'd broken her shield at the same time.

HB10: "Why do you like me?"
Slique: "Why do you wanna know?"
HB10: "I don't see any reason why i'm so attractive"
Slique: "Do you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Huh? What's that got to do with.."
Slique "DO you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Yeah I guess so"
Slique: "Then there shouldn't have to be a reason then. Science is about reasoning. Magic is about wonder and intrigue. [Insert Cold reading here] You've grown skeptical over the years, and by all means you have every right to be. [Lean forward and talk slower... deeper] But for once in your life, there comes a person who's made you feel good and comfortable that for one brief instant [Pause a beat] you've forgotten all your worries in the world. [Dramatic pause]. That's magic." etc. etc.

Note: if she says "No" u can reply with the "Old Shaman's tale":

Slique: "The Greeks believed when lightning struck, Zeus was angry at them. Often these inexplicable things were attributed to magic, because they could not find a reason for them...." [then go into the above routine]


Moral of the story: don't give her a concise reason, use push and pull, beat around the bush, keep it fun, keep it funny, and above all keep it interesting.
 

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[HTML]I've been asked the same question once by a girl. Below was my reply. Pretty good results only because it was consistent with my routine and that I'd broken her shield at the same time. 

HB10: "Why do you like me?"
Slique: "Why do you wanna know?"
HB10: "I don't see any reason why i'm so attractive"
Slique: "Do you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Huh? What's that got to do with.."
Slique "DO you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Yeah I guess so"
Slique: "Then there shouldn't have to be a reason then. Science is about reasoning. Magic is about wonder and intrigue. [Insert Cold reading here] You've grown skeptical over the years, and by all means you have every right to be. [Lean forward and talk slower... deeper] But for once in your life, there comes a person who's made you feel good and comfortable that for one brief instant [Pause a beat] you've forgotten all your worries in the world. [Dramatic pause]. That's magic." etc. etc.

Note: if she says "No" u can reply with the "Old Shaman's tale":

Slique: "The Greeks believed when lightning struck, Zeus was angry at them. Often these inexplicable things were attributed to magic, because they could not find a reason for them...." [then go into the above routine]


Moral of the story: don't give her a concise reason, use push and pull, beat around the bush, keep it fun, keep it funny, and above all keep it interesting.[/HTML]
Nice post .... not giving out the answer keep teh tension up
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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