"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why do you like me?

kingofnewbie

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if a girl ask you why you like her? and your real reason is to have sex w/ her or just for experience how the hell do you answer it?personally i think its a dumb question but want to know how a DJ would deal w/ it
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Answer her honestly. That you like her because she's a girl and she's attractive.

Don't waste time on girls that expect you to like them for whatever romantic and sweet reasons when the two of you are not even in a serious relaitonship yet.
 

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Tell her becuase she's attractive and she's fun to be around... Lie if you can't think of anything.. Jeez
 

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I've been asked the same question once by a girl. Below was my reply. Pretty good results only because it was consistent with my routine and that I'd broken her shield at the same time.

HB10: "Why do you like me?"
Slique: "Why do you wanna know?"
HB10: "I don't see any reason why i'm so attractive"
Slique: "Do you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Huh? What's that got to do with.."
Slique "DO you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Yeah I guess so"
Slique: "Then there shouldn't have to be a reason then. Science is about reasoning. Magic is about wonder and intrigue. [Insert Cold reading here] You've grown skeptical over the years, and by all means you have every right to be. [Lean forward and talk slower... deeper] But for once in your life, there comes a person who's made you feel good and comfortable that for one brief instant [Pause a beat] you've forgotten all your worries in the world. [Dramatic pause]. That's magic." etc. etc.

Note: if she says "No" u can reply with the "Old Shaman's tale":

Slique: "The Greeks believed when lightning struck, Zeus was angry at them. Often these inexplicable things were attributed to magic, because they could not find a reason for them...." [then go into the above routine]


Moral of the story: don't give her a concise reason, use push and pull, beat around the bush, keep it fun, keep it funny, and above all keep it interesting.
 

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[HTML]I've been asked the same question once by a girl. Below was my reply. Pretty good results only because it was consistent with my routine and that I'd broken her shield at the same time. 

HB10: "Why do you like me?"
Slique: "Why do you wanna know?"
HB10: "I don't see any reason why i'm so attractive"
Slique: "Do you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Huh? What's that got to do with.."
Slique "DO you believe in magic?"
HB10: "Yeah I guess so"
Slique: "Then there shouldn't have to be a reason then. Science is about reasoning. Magic is about wonder and intrigue. [Insert Cold reading here] You've grown skeptical over the years, and by all means you have every right to be. [Lean forward and talk slower... deeper] But for once in your life, there comes a person who's made you feel good and comfortable that for one brief instant [Pause a beat] you've forgotten all your worries in the world. [Dramatic pause]. That's magic." etc. etc.

Note: if she says "No" u can reply with the "Old Shaman's tale":

Slique: "The Greeks believed when lightning struck, Zeus was angry at them. Often these inexplicable things were attributed to magic, because they could not find a reason for them...." [then go into the above routine]


Moral of the story: don't give her a concise reason, use push and pull, beat around the bush, keep it fun, keep it funny, and above all keep it interesting.[/HTML]
Nice post .... not giving out the answer keep teh tension up
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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