"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do you like me?

bfl

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damn this girl asked me this lat night, i swear that me myself had no clue that i could think of a answer in less than a second, im talking about i straight up improvised my answer the first thing that came to my mind i told her, lol and she believed it too, i was like how she is different from all this other girls, that she is nice and she is not stucked up like most preety ladies, etc etc... bs and more bs that came out of my mouth just to make my answer long.

I passed that test though i could see it on her face.

Have any of yall eve been in that situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bfl

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well i see that im the only one who has had that question asked to.
 

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I've been asked that question countless times!

I answer them the same way you answered your girl and THEN I turn the tables on them and ask them why they like ME. ;)
 

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Almost every girl i've known has eventually asked that. If they ask it early, I usually just give them a funny answer or none at all. If they ask if after we've been seeing each other for a long time, I tell them the true reasons why i've been with her so long.
 
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