Why do you guys want to get married?

[Trump]

If you had enough money and status and friends and could always get any women you wanted (think Hollywood actor), why would you ask one women to settle down with for the rest of your life? Is it for your image? Is it to come home and lean on her when times get tough? Is it for kids to bring them up a in "stable, loving" household with 2 parents? Is it for constant sex?

The only answer I can come with is image, that's because society frowns on anything not status quo or unstable. People don't like seeing their politicians single and single people don't get invited anywhere where couples are. :rock:

 

[somarain]

"With all of you men out there who think that having a thousand different ladies is pretty cool, I have learned in my life I've found out that having one woman a thousand different times is much more satisfying." -Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have slept with 20,000 women.

If he's accomplished basically what you talk about and still thinks monogamy is the way to go, for me it's not even worth digging any further.

 

[amazingswayze]

My Reasons

I have a few reasons to get married in the future. Firstly, not just to say I did it. I'll get married because I'm in love. I'll get married if I want to have children with a certain woman. I don't want to be a father unless I'm married. I want to bring my kids up in a happy home. There's a lot of reasons for us men to desire marriage. After I've been a bachelor for a while, I'll probably have realized the true meaning behind this quote.

"With all of you men out there who think that having a thousand different ladies is pretty cool, I have learned in my life I've found out that having one woman a thousand different times is much more satisfying." -Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have slept with 20,000 women.

If he's accomplished basically what you talk about and still thinks monogamy is the way to go, for me it's not even worth digging any further.

tldr;
1. Love
2. Starting a Family
3. Companionship
4. Support
5. Wifey's cooking/sexual favors

 

[Jaylan]

If I ever do, its because I found a great woman to be the mother of my children. Dunno if I will make it to that point...but time will tell.

If I can plan things out right, I will not be raising children (if I have any) in two different households.

 

[prison/con.net]

obviously, you have a very poorly developed sense of self. Read some of Ayn Rand's non fiction. You marry the one who completes you, whom you admire, respect and value, and whom you'd really HATE to see with someone else.

 

[Love<3]

If you had enough money and status and friends and could always get any women you wanted (think Hollywood actor), why would you ask one women to settle down with for the rest of your life? Is it for your image? Is it to come home and lean on her when times get tough? Is it for kids to bring them up a in "stable, loving" household with 2 parents? Is it for constant sex?

The only answer I can come with is image, that's because society frowns on anything not status quo or unstable. People don't like seeing their politicians single and single people don't get invited anywhere where couples are. :rock:

Marriage is very important for healthy society

 

[SmooveMooves]

I would marry for the sake of building a strong family unit. However, marriage is not plausible in itself because it is a unity for eternity and considering the dynamic of human relationships, we just aren't wired to stay and love someone "forever". A really long time, maybe. Forever? Not so much.

 

[cola]

Well Trump, when you reach a certain level like a celeb, casual sex is no longer fun. You start to yearn for something more.. a connection, a confidant.

Its fun when you walk into a bar and know that you are leaving with something without question, but trust me it loses its appeal because it's empty. She isn't attracted to you, shes attracted to fame.

It gets to the point you don't even entertain them. But when you find someone who can see past that (usually another celeb) its refreshing and you don't want to lose that.

Most guys here can't relate because we are struggling to even get numbers, once you get groupies this is a whole 'nother game.

 

[In2theGame]

"With all of you men out there who think that having a thousand different ladies is pretty cool, I have learned in my life I've found out that having one woman a thousand different times is much more satisfying." -Wilt Chamberlain, who claimed to have slept with 20,000 women.

If he's accomplished basically what you talk about and still thinks monogamy is the way to go, for me it's not even worth digging any further.

I can agree with this a bit as I have hooked up with a lot of hot Women, Not nearly as many as him, but a good amount and in general, i agree that having one beautiful Woman that you can share life with would be the way to go along with building a family etc. However, The main problem is the quality of Women of today and the attitudes they carry that can really fvck you up. You dont want to be with one Woman most of your life only to find out years down the road that she was fvcking around on you and the whole relationship collapses. Unfortunately, many times its the ones you wouldnt expect to do such things are the ones who end up doing it.

 

[Poon King]

All men who desire marriage are either weak minded, co-dependent or insecure. OR all three. :crackup:

Image is part of it. The desire to "fit in" and look like everyone else. All beta sheep will follow the status quo.

Then you have the white knight.. who believes women NEED him to rescue them and be their loyal puppy dog there to serve them whenever they snap their fingers.

Finally you have those men with a deep feeling of insecurity and emotional weakness that he believes can only be satisfied through female validation. For many men.. women validate their entire existence. Without a woman's approval they have no reason to live and might as well crawl into a hole and die.

Underneath all the ego, money, weight lifting and flashy consumer goods.. its all about begging women to love them.

Pathetic stuff. And sad.

 

[cola]

All men who desire marriage are either weak minded, co-dependent or insecure. OR all three. :crackup:

Image is part of it. The desire to "fit in" and look like everyone else. All beta sheep will follow the status quo.

Then you have the white knight.. who believes women NEED him to rescue them and be their loyal puppy dog there to serve them whenever they snap their fingers.

Finally you have those men with a deep feeling of insecurity and emotional weakness that he believes can only be satisfied through female validation. For many men.. women validate their entire existence. Without a woman's approval they have no reason to live and might as well crawl into a hole and die.

Underneath all the ego, money, weight lifting and flashy consumer goods.. its all about begging women to love them.

Pathetic stuff. And sad.

Good God that's pessimistic. I mean geez.
Look Poon, lifes hard. Sometimes you want a partner to bounce ideas off, help you with tasks and just vent about the idiots you deal with everyday. And the girl for you, you won't have to beg her to love you, she just will.

Its nothing beta about that. Stop making everything about "alpha" vs "beta" as well. We are humans with higher level thinking abilities, not wolves whos lives evolve around hunt, eat, breed.

What happend to make you like that? We have all taken the red pill but sometimes I feel you overdosed.
All due respect.

 

[Poon King]

Good God that's pessimistic. I mean geez.
Look Poon, lifes hard. Sometimes you want a partner to bounce ideas off, help you with tasks and just vent about the idiots you deal with everyday. And the girl for you, you won't have to beg her to love you, she just will.

Its nothing beta about that. Stop making everything about "alpha" vs "beta" as well. We are humans with higher level thinking abilities, not wolves whos lives evolve around hunt, eat, breed.

What happend to make you like that? We have all taken the red pill but sometimes I feel you overdosed.
All due respect.

Cry more. :crackup:

All I can say is.. you're welcome.

This is not pessimism.. this is reality. Welcome aboard.

So... sometimes you just want a partner to bounce ideas off and help you with tasks and vent? Well guess what? You don't need marriage for that.

And if you are confident that a woman LOVES you without you having to prove anything.. then what are you getting married for? She loves you and she will stay with you no matter what. Marriage or no marriage. Right? RIGHT.

Many men get married because they fear the woman will leave them if they don't. This is called "beta submission" and it comes from pathetic co-dependence and insecurity.

 

[Stugots]

Good God that's pessimistic. I mean geez.
Look Poon, lifes hard. Sometimes you want a partner to bounce ideas off, help you with tasks and just vent about the idiots you deal with everyday. And the girl for you, you won't have to beg her to love you, she just will.

Its nothing beta about that. Stop making everything about "alpha" vs "beta" as well. We are humans with higher level thinking abilities, not wolves whos lives evolve around hunt, eat, breed.

What happend to make you like that? We have all taken the red pill but sometimes I feel you overdosed.
All due respect.

Let a foreveralone troll who names himself "Poon King" like a 12 year old on the internet who's against nature itself and admits he's never been married, never wanted to get married, never been in a relationship nor wants to be in one tell others all about marriage and relationships. :crackup:

 

[cola]

Cry more. :crackup:

Im not crying but you are doing ppl a disservice who come here. This website is to help not get taken advantage of, you are what I call a Red Pill Extremist
all women aren't evil monsters here to sap the manhood out you.

All I can say is.. you're welcome.
Thanks I guess.

This is not pessimism.. this is reality. Welcome aboard.

Your reality. A very depressing one at that. So what are you here on a seduction site for if you hate them and their nature so much? As evident by your posts.


So... sometimes you just want a partner to bounce ideas off and help you with tasks and vent? Well guess what? You don't need marriage for that.

No, but if you know you care about her, and it means something to her, why not?

And if you are confident that a woman LOVES you without you having to prove anything.. then what are you getting married for? She loves you and she will stay with you no matter what. Marriage or no marriage. Right? RIGHT.

You are taking vows. Making it official she is your partner in this life.

Many men get married because they fear the woman will leave them if they don't. This is called "beta submission" and it comes from pathetic co-dependence and insecurity.

Well I'm against this type of marriage as well. If you aren't ready to marry and she is, just let her go.


Geez you r creepy sometimes. You do make valid points often, but you are like a goth kid.. its always raining in your head.

I feel like if I was at a bar with poon king, and said bro those two over there are hot.. he would give me a 2 hour lecture on why they came looking so hot as a ploy to emasculate men and we should just stand here looking at each other because making it known we think they are hot would be beta.

 

[Poon King]

Well I'm against this type of marriage as well. If you aren't ready to marry and she is, just let her go.


Geez you r creepy sometimes. You do make valid points often, but you are like a goth kid.. its always raining in your head.

I feel like if I was at a bar with poon king, and said bro those two over there are hot.. he would give me a 2 hour lecture on why they came looking so hot as a ploy to emasculate men and we should just stand here looking at each other because making it known we think they are hot would be beta.

Absurd and whiny post.

It is not always "raining" in my head. I simply tell it like it is.

If you interpret what I say as "negative" its because you are emotionally frail and probably come from a pampered and sheltered lifestyle.. OR worse.. you buy into everything the media sells you.

Nothing I say is negative. It is reality. How you interpret it is up to you.

Wake up and grow up.

 

[cola]

Absurd and whiny post.

It is not always "raining" in my head. I simply tell it like it is.

If you interpret what I say as "negative" its because you are emotionally frail and probably come from a pampered and sheltered lifestyle.. OR worse.. you buy into everything the media sells you.

Nothing I say is negative. It is reality. How you interpret it is up to you.

Wake up and grow up.

It's YOUR reality. Im far from pampered. I come from the Baltimore inner city with a mentally ill mother, a non existent father figure and thank God a Grandma who cared enough to give me 3 hots and a cot. If I was frail or weak minded I wouldn't have made it this far.

To say it plain: I come from nothing
and I don't watch t.v or keep up with current events to be brainwashed by media.

I know all females aren't bad because I have come across females in MY travels who have been saints. Infact, once after I payed bills, I had 8$ left. A plate.. not even a girlfriend a plate brought me a meal every day for 2 weeks and never once brought it up or made me feel like less of a man. She even gave me head after I ate.

Another plate used to give me rides everywhere when my car went up and when i offered gas money told me "Dont be ridiculous"..

I have another plate whenever I have to flake on her and genuinely am sorry, responds "Its Ok Daddy, I'm here to make your d*ck hard not your life" and reschedules.

So don't sit on this forum and act like all women are bad or have an agenda because you are lying to the young kids on this forum. It's not reality its negativity. For every sorry, manipulative woman its a piece of sh_t man who's her match.

So don't let the world bring you down, not everyone here is that f'd up and cold.

Incubus the warmth.

To anyone reading this, poon king is nuts. There are good women out there and even a couple great ones with no agenda. The majority are bad but you have to learn to discern and pick thru the bad fruit.

You came across crappy women who did you dirty and now you have a negative view on them as a whole. It projects in your posts.

 

[Poon King]

It's YOUR reality. Im far from pampered. I come from the Baltimore inner city with a mentally ill mother, a non existent father figure and thank God a Grandma who cared enough to give me 3 hots and a cot. If I was frail or weak minded I wouldn't have made it this far.

To say it plain: I come from nothing
and I don't watch t.v or keep up with current events to be brainwashed by media.

I know all females aren't bad because I have come across females in MY travels who have been saints. Infact, once after I payed bills, I had 8$ left. A plate.. not even a girlfriend a plate brought me a meal every day for 2 weeks and never once brought it up or made me feel like less of a man.

Another plate used to give me rides everywhere when my car went up and when i offered gas money told me "Dont be ridiculous"..

I have another plate whenever I have to flake on her and genuinely am sorry, responds "Its Ok Daddy, I'm here to make your d*ck hard not your life" and reschedules.

So don't sit on this forum and act like all women are bad or have an agenda because you arelying to the young kids on this forum. It's not reality its negativity.


Incubus the warmth.

To anyone reading this, poon king is nuts. Their are goid women out their and even a couple great ones with no agenda. The majority are bad but you have to learn to discern and pick thru the bad fruit.

Everyone has a sob story.

I never said all women are "bad" to being with. I explain the nature of women and YOU assign "bad" to that nature.

All things "bad" and "negative" come from YOUR interpretation of the realities and insights I discuss in my posts.

If you would like to point out specific things I said about women that are FALSE then this is a good time. Otherwise stop b!tching.

I say water is wet. YOU say wet is "bad". So you say I'm "negative".

I'm not negative, you're just weak. :crackup:

 

[Stugots]

It's YOUR reality. Im far from pampered. I come from the Baltimore inner city with a mentally ill mother, a non existent father figure and thank God a Grandma who cared enough to give me 3 hots and a cot. If I was frail or weak minded I wouldn't have made it this far.

To say it plain: I come from nothing
and I don't watch t.v or keep up with current events to be brainwashed by media.

I know all females aren't bad because I have come across females in MY travels who have been saints. Infact, once after I payed bills, I had 8$ left. A plate.. not even a girlfriend a plate brought me a meal every day for 2 weeks and never once brought it up or made me feel like less of a man. She even gave me head after I ate.

Another plate used to give me rides everywhere when my car went up and when i offered gas money told me "Dont be ridiculous"..

I have another plate whenever I have to flake on her and genuinely am sorry, responds "Its Ok Daddy, I'm here to make your d*ck hard not your life" and reschedules.

So don't sit on this forum and act like all women are bad or have an agenda because you are lying to the young kids on this forum. It's not reality its negativity. For every sorry, manipulative woman its a piece of sh_t man who's her match.


Incubus the warmth.

To anyone reading this, poon king is nuts. There are good women out there and even a couple great ones with no agenda. The majority are bad but you have to learn to discern and pick thru the bad fruit.

You came across crappy women who did you dirty and now you have a negative view on them as a whole. It projects in your posts.

"Poon King" is obsessed with hating on everyone else relationships and marriages. The "Poon King" is so "great" that no one wants to marry let alone be in a relationship with him.

The dude is a foreveralone neckbeard troll who's only source of being in a "relationship" is interacting with men online pretending to be trying to "help" them.

Skinnyguy nailed it in another thread when he said "Poon King" is g@y. His posting history reads like a man-child who dislikes women only because he can't come out of the closet. Possibly his parents wouldn't accept his true sexuality.

 

[prison/con.net]

apparently, you guys have never had much of anything BAD happen to you, loss of health, lose of income, etc. Having the right woman around on a steady basis is a huge source of comfort and encouragment. In fact, if she AINT such a source, dump her NOW.

 

[cola]

Poon King I read your posts and a few things ive noticed about you.

1. You've insulted just about everybody on this forum.
2. Any time someone disagrees with you, they are "weak ot a beta".

07/29/2015

Poon King: Chit chat is the domain of women and faggots.

So poon do you just go around sticking your fingers in random vaginas without so much as one conversation?

07/12/2015
Bill gates is beta.
Lol. Didnt know you two were aquainted. Turning Microsoft into a powerhouse and making yourself the richest man in the WORLD then vowing to donate more than HALF that fortune to charity upon death is really beta though..

07/20/15
The word husband and idiot is interchangeable.

So every man who ever married was an idiot? Bold statement. Not one single one of the billions of men who married got a good deal out of it?

07/12/2015
He is married. That is what you call beta submission
-Cola sighs-

06/07/2016
I speak reality. If you view it as negativity you are weak, emotional.

Funny you said that to me up above as well.

In another thread a guy said his virgin girlfriend was uncomfortable with sex, you told him put her on the shelf and have sex with her friends..

WTF??? How can you say you're not negative.