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Dave, it seems like all the criteria based searching for the perfect mate has brought you 360 degrees back to your own self. Dave, you are your perfect mate.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There's a thing called emotional intelligence. It is a mix of intuition and empathy about what someone else is feeling and thinking. If you're on this web site, you have probably never heard of it. If you are in the majority here who never get laid, you will argue with me that it even exists.
Women run circles around men when it comes to emotional intelligence. I run circles around most men, but when compared to an average woman, I am still retarded. If I wanted to know what another person was thinking, I would be best served to have a woman find out for me. That's why there are so many female spies:
https://www.washingtonian.com/2013/04/02/do-women-make-better-spies/
Do Women Make Better Spies?
What are you trying to say, you want a woman who is extremely jacked/ripped?my 2 male best friends are literally better than women at everything across the board
1 - 31 years old, extremely jacked/ripped, perfect complexion, smart, funny, makes 100K a year, very handsome face, great guy
2 - 42 years old, extremely jacked/ripped, smart, funny, multi millionaire, very handsome face, great guy
The current state of society is messed up beyond repair. But the above description is how it's been for more or less the whole of humanity, and likely is for the upper echelon of society.Women have the ability to remove stress and save time from a man like nothing else, a legit good woman can make you relax just by looking at her, and they're excellent at caretaking.
The love of a good woman makes a man feel invencible.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What are you trying to say, you want a woman who is extremely jacked/ripped?
Pandora and Bible Belt had it correct, women are better at nurturing and emotional intelligence. They're also better in the service industry. I bet both women and men would prefer to be served (at a restaurant, by a cashier, etc) by a woman than a man. They have a non-competive, nonabrasive social ease that is more soothing than a male. ImTheDoubleGreatest's post was good also.
More women are getting higher education than men. Maybe the highest educated are men, I don't know, but more females go to college than males.
Women are more attractive than men (easily) at their peak, but men can hold on to their looks longer.
A 10 is a 10 taking a sh*t and having the flu.No, because we're all human. Even the hottest girl in the world takes a sh1t every day. Does she look beautiful then? Does she look beautiful when she's sick with the flu. I think you're making too much out of female beauty. If a girl isn't even willing to admit she's human, then she's got issues.
And also, there's like TONS of girls who think they are 10's that are 6's or worse. Seems a good portion of the female population thinks they're a 10 for no reason.
Hey Harvard called they wanna give you a scholarship!Men serve a different purpose in the world than women do.
Women are better at being women. Men are better at being men.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Women at their peak are more attractive than men, I don't even see how that is debatable. That's why more women are paid (more) to strip, do porn, and model. I don't care about makeup. There's a thread on makeup in the Anything Else forum right now. Honestly, the girls that I find attractive, I find attractive with or without their makeup. I prefer the natural look. The girls that I don't find attractive, I don't find attractive with or without their makeup. Makeup can cover a few flaws, but you can tell when it gets too heavy.women are not more attractive than men. That's complete nonsense. Most women look VERY bland without makeup. Women also age about 10 years faster in their skin and appearance. White women especially age horrific
The rest of what you said is nonsense also
As long as you don't mean perfect, that's fine.A 10 is a 10 taking a sh*t and having the flu.
A HOT woman taking a sh*t still looks better than an ugly woman taking a sh*t. I think you are making the definition of a 10 to mean perfection which is stupid.
A 10 isn't perfect. A 10 is just hotter than almost all other women.
If perfection doesn't exist.. why have a rating system that includes perfection?As long as you don't mean perfect, that's fine.
But isn't 10 perfect? So 9.9 at best?
Okay then. I'm perfect. I'm an 1,000,000/10, and they're a bunch of stupid helpless wh0res whose only gift to the world (their beauty) doesn't even exist if they don't lie by wearing makeup.If perfection doesn't exist.. why have a rating system that includes perfection?
I would say 11 is perfection since 11 is never part of the rating system.
I don't believe in 10s. No human being is perfect. To me, the 10 exists as an ideal. You can't rate anyone a 10, because if you then see someone hotter, there's no way to express it. So no one should be rated a 10. If someone is very attractive, assigning them a 9.2 or something like that should be plenty good enough. I can count on one hand the number of women I've considered 9s. But we all have our own way of rating.If perfection doesn't exist.. why have a rating system that includes perfection?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I hear ya.I don't believe in 10s. No human being is perfect. To me, the 10 exists as an ideal. You can't rate anyone a 10, because if you then see someone hotter, there's no way to express it. So no one should be rated a 10. If someone is very attractive, assigning them a 9.2 or something like that should be plenty good enough. I can count on one hand the number of women I've considered 9s. But we all have our own way of rating.