"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why do you guys think men are better than women at everything???

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Dave, it seems like all the criteria based searching for the perfect mate has brought you 360 degrees back to your own self. Dave, you are your perfect mate.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's a thing called emotional intelligence. It is a mix of intuition and empathy about what someone else is feeling and thinking. If you're on this web site, you have probably never heard of it. If you are in the majority here who never get laid, you will argue with me that it even exists.

Women run circles around men when it comes to emotional intelligence. I run circles around most men, but when compared to an average woman, I am still retarded. If I wanted to know what another person was thinking, I would be best served to have a woman find out for me. That's why there are so many female spies:

https://www.washingtonian.com/2013/04/02/do-women-make-better-spies/
Do Women Make Better Spies?
 

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There's a thing called emotional intelligence. It is a mix of intuition and empathy about what someone else is feeling and thinking. If you're on this web site, you have probably never heard of it. If you are in the majority here who never get laid, you will argue with me that it even exists.

Women run circles around men when it comes to emotional intelligence. I run circles around most men, but when compared to an average woman, I am still retarded. If I wanted to know what another person was thinking, I would be best served to have a woman find out for me. That's why there are so many female spies:

https://www.washingtonian.com/2013/04/02/do-women-make-better-spies/
Do Women Make Better Spies?

Totally agree. Good stuff.
Most men are too boastful to admit this though. Have a man and woman tell you the same story of an experience they went through together and see which one remembers every detail. Chances are it won't be the man.
 

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my 2 male best friends are literally better than women at everything across the board

1 - 31 years old, extremely jacked/ripped, perfect complexion, smart, funny, makes 100K a year, very handsome face, great guy
2 - 42 years old, extremely jacked/ripped, smart, funny, multi millionaire, very handsome face, great guy
What are you trying to say, you want a woman who is extremely jacked/ripped?

Pandora and Bible Belt had it correct, women are better at nurturing and emotional intelligence. They're also better in the service industry. I bet both women and men would prefer to be served (at a restaurant, by a cashier, etc) by a woman than a man. They have a non-competive, nonabrasive social ease that is more soothing than a male. ImTheDoubleGreatest's post was good also.

More women are getting higher education than men. Maybe the highest educated are men, I don't know, but more females go to college than males.
Women are more attractive than men (easily) at their peak, but men can hold on to their looks longer.
 

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Women have the ability to remove stress and save time from a man like nothing else, a legit good woman can make you relax just by looking at her, and they're excellent at caretaking.

The love of a good woman makes a man feel invencible.
The current state of society is messed up beyond repair. But the above description is how it's been for more or less the whole of humanity, and likely is for the upper echelon of society.

Even in the millionaire next door, one critical element among millionaires is their CHOICE of spouse.

Successful people don't just "hook up" and hope for the best.

Men understand what being a man means, women understand what being a woman means, they the best of the best compliment each other as much as possible, a self fulfilling cycle of mutual benefit.

Even the sexual division of labor, a critical element that split man from all the other animals, is based on man (hunter) - woman (gatherer) pairs that compliment each other.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are you trying to say, you want a woman who is extremely jacked/ripped?

Pandora and Bible Belt had it correct, women are better at nurturing and emotional intelligence. They're also better in the service industry. I bet both women and men would prefer to be served (at a restaurant, by a cashier, etc) by a woman than a man. They have a non-competive, nonabrasive social ease that is more soothing than a male. ImTheDoubleGreatest's post was good also.

More women are getting higher education than men. Maybe the highest educated are men, I don't know, but more females go to college than males.
Women are more attractive than men (easily) at their peak, but men can hold on to their looks longer.

women are not more attractive than men. That's complete nonsense. Most women look VERY bland without makeup. Women also age about 10 years faster in their skin and appearance. White women especially age horrific

The rest of what you said is nonsense also

and no I don't want a very jacked woman but I do want a very curvy woman who is also very athletic and naturally pretty without makeup. It's very very hard to find
 

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No, because we're all human. Even the hottest girl in the world takes a sh1t every day. Does she look beautiful then? Does she look beautiful when she's sick with the flu. I think you're making too much out of female beauty. If a girl isn't even willing to admit she's human, then she's got issues.

And also, there's like TONS of girls who think they are 10's that are 6's or worse. Seems a good portion of the female population thinks they're a 10 for no reason.
A 10 is a 10 taking a sh*t and having the flu.

A HOT woman taking a sh*t still looks better than an ugly woman taking a sh*t. I think you are making the definition of a 10 to mean perfection which is stupid.

A 10 isn't perfect. A 10 is just hotter than almost all other women.
 

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Or date Asian women and just ignore the large loud proud euro girls. They still know how to make a team with a man.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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women are not more attractive than men. That's complete nonsense. Most women look VERY bland without makeup. Women also age about 10 years faster in their skin and appearance. White women especially age horrific

The rest of what you said is nonsense also
Women at their peak are more attractive than men, I don't even see how that is debatable. That's why more women are paid (more) to strip, do porn, and model. I don't care about makeup. There's a thread on makeup in the Anything Else forum right now. Honestly, the girls that I find attractive, I find attractive with or without their makeup. I prefer the natural look. The girls that I don't find attractive, I don't find attractive with or without their makeup. Makeup can cover a few flaws, but you can tell when it gets too heavy.

If the rest of what I said is "nonsense", are you trying to say men are better nurturers than women? Because that is laughable.
And more women do go to college than men now, look it up.
 
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A 10 is a 10 taking a sh*t and having the flu.

A HOT woman taking a sh*t still looks better than an ugly woman taking a sh*t. I think you are making the definition of a 10 to mean perfection which is stupid.

A 10 isn't perfect. A 10 is just hotter than almost all other women.
As long as you don't mean perfect, that's fine.

But isn't 10 perfect? So 9.9 at best?
 

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As long as you don't mean perfect, that's fine.

But isn't 10 perfect? So 9.9 at best?
If perfection doesn't exist.. why have a rating system that includes perfection?

I would say 11 is perfection since 11 is never part of the rating system.
 
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If perfection doesn't exist.. why have a rating system that includes perfection?

I would say 11 is perfection since 11 is never part of the rating system.
Okay then. I'm perfect. I'm an 1,000,000/10, and they're a bunch of stupid helpless wh0res whose only gift to the world (their beauty) doesn't even exist if they don't lie by wearing makeup.
 

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If perfection doesn't exist.. why have a rating system that includes perfection?
I don't believe in 10s. No human being is perfect. To me, the 10 exists as an ideal. You can't rate anyone a 10, because if you then see someone hotter, there's no way to express it. So no one should be rated a 10. If someone is very attractive, assigning them a 9.2 or something like that should be plenty good enough. I can count on one hand the number of women I've considered 9s. But we all have our own way of rating.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don't believe in 10s. No human being is perfect. To me, the 10 exists as an ideal. You can't rate anyone a 10, because if you then see someone hotter, there's no way to express it. So no one should be rated a 10. If someone is very attractive, assigning them a 9.2 or something like that should be plenty good enough. I can count on one hand the number of women I've considered 9s. But we all have our own way of rating.
I hear ya.

But to me, a woman is a 10 if she has all the features I like.

Perfection is never part of my rating system because it doesn't exist.

Just like how you might say you found the "perfect applicant for a job" but it doesn't really mean that person is flawless.
 
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