"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Why do you guys neve blame womens for there bad behaviour ?

RangerMIke

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Those are perfectly good reasons to blame the men. However, you can't blame a man if he goes on a date and the woman is just staring at her phone the whole time or a similar scenario.
Sure that's rude, but she's is just telling you, by her actions, that she's not that interested in you. No need to waste any more time or money on her. no need getting upset about it just move on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You realize most of the problems on this board directly stem from guys pedestalizing women and not handling rejection well, right? Shouldn't blame women for that
Lol, literally 90% of guys problems with women are trying to convince a completely uninterested woman to become interested rather than finding other women who are interested
 

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Sure that's rude, but she's is just telling you, by her actions, that she's not that interested in you. No need to waste any more time or money on her. no need getting upset about it just move on.
I would have left in the middle of date. I'm sure there's some guys on here that would have said you didn't say this man.
 

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I must agree with the OP, especially after reading the comments in an article about a 15 year old girl who had sex with 25 boys in the school bathroom. People were saying it's because she was a victim of human trafficking (read: she's an illegal on welfare), and her mom is defending her, saying she only had consensual sex with like 5 or 6 of the boys, tops. Many are saying "How can people blame this poor, innocent girl?? Those boys should be prosecuted for rape!" Sorry, but since the dawn of mankind if a woman wanted to be Super Ho, she could be.
 

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I would have left in the middle of date. I'm sure there's some guys on here that would have said you didn't say this man.
This is the big difference between me and I guess most guys. I don't date to get women. I date to have fun, when I invite a women out, it is to something that I'm doing because it's what I like, or it's a restaurant I want to try. She is there because I don't like doing sh!t by myself. Why would I walk out on a date if I'm doing something I want. She can fvcking leave if she wants, but not me.

You can not control what people, especially women do, you can however control how you act. You should not give a fvck what women do or don't do. Besides, you have no idea what is going on in her life, what if the woman is checking her phone because she just found out her mom went to the hospital.... she's out with you because she didn't want to cancel, but her mind is elsewhere. Never jump to conclusions, always be a gentleman, and things will work out. If her behavior bothers you just don't ask her out anymore.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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