"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Why do YOU deserve a hot girlfriend?

floydb25

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captain55 said:
oh get real.... just cuz a guy is broke doesnt mean he has nothing going for him.... most chumps you see with hot chicks either have r
1. a big ****
2. handsome face
3. or a great body
Agreed. They also usually have good people and street skills... ie, know how to charm, lure, and manipulate others.

Guys do NOT know how to judge other guys and what women find attractive in them. Don't know why they keep acting like they do. A lot of losers and bad boys are "hot", exciting, unpredictable, assertive, confident, socially adept, etc. They're only losers to other guys, but even that has a lot to do with ego, competition, and envy.

Guys don't even know how to accurately judge and compare other guys when it comes to basic looks and physical features. Not until they actually see them with various women do they take notice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Maybe this isn't what the OP was trying to communicate, but my optimistic interpretation of what he said is through the lens of value. If we don't first believe we have value then there is no point beyond that. If we don't perceive value within ourselves, what is it that we're trying to attract?

Let's be real for a second though... women are not devoid of value. And beauty, while it can be associate with negative qualities like narcissism, disloyalty, and a "princess mentality", it is still a piece of value. It is evidenced in that most men would never get excited (as possibly never even try) about f*cking an ugly girl. But most men would get very excited about f*cking a beautiful girl all other things being equal.

So when the OP says we "deserve" a beautiful woman, no, there is not some universal law or moral imperative of fairness or anything else out there that says we as men should be endowed with sexy females. But if we have value, we should expect that in our search for women what we value should be met in them... and one of those values is attractiveness. In that sense, I would say we "deserve" a beautiful woman. The way everyone seems to be taking what the OP said is from a position of submission and unworthiness... and I do not accept that at all. What a man should do instead is have standards and accept nothing less. A man without value cannot do that.
 
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