"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why do YOU deserve a hot girlfriend?

floydb25

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captain55 said:
oh get real.... just cuz a guy is broke doesnt mean he has nothing going for him.... most chumps you see with hot chicks either have r
1. a big ****
2. handsome face
3. or a great body
Agreed. They also usually have good people and street skills... ie, know how to charm, lure, and manipulate others.

Guys do NOT know how to judge other guys and what women find attractive in them. Don't know why they keep acting like they do. A lot of losers and bad boys are "hot", exciting, unpredictable, assertive, confident, socially adept, etc. They're only losers to other guys, but even that has a lot to do with ego, competition, and envy.

Guys don't even know how to accurately judge and compare other guys when it comes to basic looks and physical features. Not until they actually see them with various women do they take notice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe this isn't what the OP was trying to communicate, but my optimistic interpretation of what he said is through the lens of value. If we don't first believe we have value then there is no point beyond that. If we don't perceive value within ourselves, what is it that we're trying to attract?

Let's be real for a second though... women are not devoid of value. And beauty, while it can be associate with negative qualities like narcissism, disloyalty, and a "princess mentality", it is still a piece of value. It is evidenced in that most men would never get excited (as possibly never even try) about f*cking an ugly girl. But most men would get very excited about f*cking a beautiful girl all other things being equal.

So when the OP says we "deserve" a beautiful woman, no, there is not some universal law or moral imperative of fairness or anything else out there that says we as men should be endowed with sexy females. But if we have value, we should expect that in our search for women what we value should be met in them... and one of those values is attractiveness. In that sense, I would say we "deserve" a beautiful woman. The way everyone seems to be taking what the OP said is from a position of submission and unworthiness... and I do not accept that at all. What a man should do instead is have standards and accept nothing less. A man without value cannot do that.
 
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