"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why do YOU deserve a hot girlfriend?

floydb25

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captain55 said:
oh get real.... just cuz a guy is broke doesnt mean he has nothing going for him.... most chumps you see with hot chicks either have r
1. a big ****
2. handsome face
3. or a great body
Agreed. They also usually have good people and street skills... ie, know how to charm, lure, and manipulate others.

Guys do NOT know how to judge other guys and what women find attractive in them. Don't know why they keep acting like they do. A lot of losers and bad boys are "hot", exciting, unpredictable, assertive, confident, socially adept, etc. They're only losers to other guys, but even that has a lot to do with ego, competition, and envy.

Guys don't even know how to accurately judge and compare other guys when it comes to basic looks and physical features. Not until they actually see them with various women do they take notice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Maybe this isn't what the OP was trying to communicate, but my optimistic interpretation of what he said is through the lens of value. If we don't first believe we have value then there is no point beyond that. If we don't perceive value within ourselves, what is it that we're trying to attract?

Let's be real for a second though... women are not devoid of value. And beauty, while it can be associate with negative qualities like narcissism, disloyalty, and a "princess mentality", it is still a piece of value. It is evidenced in that most men would never get excited (as possibly never even try) about f*cking an ugly girl. But most men would get very excited about f*cking a beautiful girl all other things being equal.

So when the OP says we "deserve" a beautiful woman, no, there is not some universal law or moral imperative of fairness or anything else out there that says we as men should be endowed with sexy females. But if we have value, we should expect that in our search for women what we value should be met in them... and one of those values is attractiveness. In that sense, I would say we "deserve" a beautiful woman. The way everyone seems to be taking what the OP said is from a position of submission and unworthiness... and I do not accept that at all. What a man should do instead is have standards and accept nothing less. A man without value cannot do that.
 
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