"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do yall assume the girl is ****** another guy if she's playing games

JPlaya

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Stops responding to a text for 10 minutes means she's blowing another guy. Is this true, because this has even made me paranoid.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FairShake

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Girls know the game too bro. They also have lives.

If they aren't responding it likely means they are busy. Or just trying to make you paranoid.

I think alot of us have been cheated on on this board.
 

PapiChulo

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The problem is that in majority of cases the whole thing is over before the guy even gets a clue, and there he is pondering how she could blow this other guy....It is a matter of time for the most people. Some women won't cheat physically, but will cheat emotionally, etc.
 

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Of course. Women do have lives. :yes:

Don't let a woman think she has you. :nono:

A woman who is interested in you and who wants you will find a way to get you. ;)

Show me a man on this board who hasn't been cheated on and I'll show you a NBA player who has trouble getting laid. :p

Women always have options. Call it what you want, but they know the game very well. :nervous:

Case closed. Roll with it. :box:
 

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Even when they are texting you they are blowing someone else (He's #1, You're #2). Even when they are blowing you they are texting someone else (You're #1, he's #2).
 

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Dang so basically its done for us? Women will always have the upperhand? So this means once we catch strong feelings for a girl we're basically screwed. Makes me scared to fall in love and of commitment
 

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FYI

"An egotistical person's self-worth is driven by external factors -- primarily feedback from others. A person with high self-esteem's sense of self-worth is determined by internal factors such as passion, belief or personal vision.“
 

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I wouldn't worry about it. For the record Nismo, although I'm only 20, I have never been cheated on, never been broken up with either.

But something like texting I feel is no big deal if they don't answer for a little while, although I will say if it's several hours and then they text back without explaining the absence I too wonder if they're hanging out with people (not necessarily cheating) but it's a little fishy if they're absent for 4 hours and then text back continuing the old conversation.
 
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