"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why do women tease man and not do any thing else.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kineti[C]harm
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Satan Psycho
Don Juan
It's just the ultimate thrill for them. It gives them the high that they live for. Let that be enough explanation as to 'why'.
Just remember that you can use it to your advantage. Make their heads spin with C&F. Tell them to stop hitting on you/touching you because you’re not a piece of meat for their every sexual whim, etc. etc.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OddTech
Senior Don Juan
Bingo, almost all woman want to feel like they are "desirable" and valuable. They put a lot of weight on how much attention they get and how others perceived them. Remember back in high school, everybody wants to be popular. Same thing.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
I can just picture it:Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
It's our job. If we don't tease men we will get thrown out of the female gender all together.
NEWSFLASH: Sexy_Malibu neutered for not teasing men for no apparent reason...
Really, it depends on what type of teasing you're talking about. If it's verbal teasing, then it's most likely because they want to get your attention. The best response to this is to tease them back playfully and not take it personally, then it will remain playful.
However, if it's d*ckteasing (definition: baiting a man along using his false hope of obtaining sexual gratification) then the best way to stop it is to walk away.
[PLAYFUL TEASE]Unless, of course, you're being teased by genderless Sexy_Malibu, in which case there really is no threat... [/PLAYFUL TEASE]
---Cassidy
THA REALNESS
Banned
If she's teasing you and your not feeling her that much tell her to go **** herself.
Remember:if you wanna **** her ,go for it.If they want you then good ,if she doesn't the hell with her.