Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Why do women make it a point to tell me their life's story?!?!

kanaka

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Its becoming REALLY irritating and i feel like driving a nail through my head when it starts and promptly make excuses to get the heck out of there BUT sometimes i can't due to mitigating circumstances.

Any ideas how to send a clear message that i'm not interested in hearing a story bout how a girl is attracted to a guy but doesn't have the guts to tell him and asking me what to do?. Thus far i just shrug off the convo by saying "i dunno" and then try to change the subject but some people are relentless

Tis really driving me up the wall. I think im gonna have to be a jerk and just say "Excuse me, im not your shrink. You have girlfriends dont you?". Actually i might try that....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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fedagent

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Dude,

Read the bible and she won't do this. Once a woman does this you've already friended yourself.

Fed
 

DJDamage

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kanaka said:
Any ideas how to send a clear message that i'm not interested in hearing a story bout how a girl is attracted to a guy but doesn't have the guts to tell him and asking me what to do?. Thus far i just shrug off the convo by saying "i dunno" and then try to change the subject but some people are relentless
The problem is that you are not being sexual and those girl see you as a soft teddy bear and feel very comfortable around you.. Next time a girl's come to you with this sh1t just change the subject and say something sexual:
"personally I think you have nice t1ts and I want to see more of them, I hope that helps".

Give her a typical man answer and she will see you in a different light and she won't come back and ask you questions like that. You might lose a few females here and there but you will get more ass this way too.

Lets not forget the kino when you meet new girls so they won't think of you as one of them
 

Heyjose25points

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From what i've heard, u want to get her life story, as then she can be more comfortable around u, and then u can learn her most dirty secrets, which then u can use that to turn her on sexually ;-) But of course touch the *****.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ryannath

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Not hilarious answers. Don't be a psvssy. You gotta be a man so they will see you as more than a "female friend." When they start talking about some other guy, I usually say, "let's not talk about that. Let's talk about our date" or something like that and usually they will get the hint that you don't wanna hear about other guys, but if they don't take the hint, fvck them. They are not into fvcking you, so move on if that happens and find someone else.
 

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kanaka said:
Its becoming REALLY irritating and i feel like driving a nail through my head when it starts and promptly make excuses to get the heck out of there BUT sometimes i can't due to mitigating circumstances.

Any ideas how to send a clear message that i'm not interested in hearing a story bout how a girl is attracted to a guy but doesn't have the guts to tell him and asking me what to do?. Thus far i just shrug off the convo by saying "i dunno" and then try to change the subject but some people are relentless

Tis really driving me up the wall. I think im gonna have to be a jerk and just say "Excuse me, im not your shrink. You have girlfriends dont you?". Actually i might try that....

You're not running a tight game, and your skills aren't up to scratch.

I'm guessing you are still a little ordinary, still a little AFC.

Next time, tell her to shut the fvck up.

I'm serious, do it.
 

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hearing something about her isnt harmful. it show's ur interest.
also, it forms more connection between u two. the more she feels like u dont kno about her, the more she see's u as a stranger.
but if u dont wanna listen to boring details, jus change the subject.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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