"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why do women make it a point to tell me their life's story?!?!

kanaka

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Its becoming REALLY irritating and i feel like driving a nail through my head when it starts and promptly make excuses to get the heck out of there BUT sometimes i can't due to mitigating circumstances.

Any ideas how to send a clear message that i'm not interested in hearing a story bout how a girl is attracted to a guy but doesn't have the guts to tell him and asking me what to do?. Thus far i just shrug off the convo by saying "i dunno" and then try to change the subject but some people are relentless

Tis really driving me up the wall. I think im gonna have to be a jerk and just say "Excuse me, im not your shrink. You have girlfriends dont you?". Actually i might try that....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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fedagent

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Dude,

Read the bible and she won't do this. Once a woman does this you've already friended yourself.

Fed
 

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kanaka said:
Any ideas how to send a clear message that i'm not interested in hearing a story bout how a girl is attracted to a guy but doesn't have the guts to tell him and asking me what to do?. Thus far i just shrug off the convo by saying "i dunno" and then try to change the subject but some people are relentless
The problem is that you are not being sexual and those girl see you as a soft teddy bear and feel very comfortable around you.. Next time a girl's come to you with this sh1t just change the subject and say something sexual:
"personally I think you have nice t1ts and I want to see more of them, I hope that helps".

Give her a typical man answer and she will see you in a different light and she won't come back and ask you questions like that. You might lose a few females here and there but you will get more ass this way too.

Lets not forget the kino when you meet new girls so they won't think of you as one of them
 

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From what i've heard, u want to get her life story, as then she can be more comfortable around u, and then u can learn her most dirty secrets, which then u can use that to turn her on sexually ;-) But of course touch the *****.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not hilarious answers. Don't be a psvssy. You gotta be a man so they will see you as more than a "female friend." When they start talking about some other guy, I usually say, "let's not talk about that. Let's talk about our date" or something like that and usually they will get the hint that you don't wanna hear about other guys, but if they don't take the hint, fvck them. They are not into fvcking you, so move on if that happens and find someone else.
 

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kanaka said:
Its becoming REALLY irritating and i feel like driving a nail through my head when it starts and promptly make excuses to get the heck out of there BUT sometimes i can't due to mitigating circumstances.

Any ideas how to send a clear message that i'm not interested in hearing a story bout how a girl is attracted to a guy but doesn't have the guts to tell him and asking me what to do?. Thus far i just shrug off the convo by saying "i dunno" and then try to change the subject but some people are relentless

Tis really driving me up the wall. I think im gonna have to be a jerk and just say "Excuse me, im not your shrink. You have girlfriends dont you?". Actually i might try that....

You're not running a tight game, and your skills aren't up to scratch.

I'm guessing you are still a little ordinary, still a little AFC.

Next time, tell her to shut the fvck up.

I'm serious, do it.
 

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hearing something about her isnt harmful. it show's ur interest.
also, it forms more connection between u two. the more she feels like u dont kno about her, the more she see's u as a stranger.
but if u dont wanna listen to boring details, jus change the subject.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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