Why do women love drama so much?

[El Payaso]

What attracts them to manufacture drama.

 

[Asmodeus]

It is a distraction from their "boring" lives. Incomplete and bored women who find ways to keep themselves engaged and challenged in this world. Also drama creates a sense of self importance. People want to feel like they are important, that they have meaning and a more grand purpose in things. Thus, when they are unable to find this purpose in their "boring" lives and when they feel unfulfilled they will create drama to give them meaning and purpose.

 

[Who Dares Win]

When you lack any basic skill in terms of building, fixing and creating you have no other choice than to create emotional problems and situation that fall in the only field you master.

Drama is the opposite of logic in most of the cases.

 

[BetterCallSaul]

That's how they make their own entertainment. It's not much more complicated than that.

As a guy, if I were to tell you a story about how I banged 2 chicks in the pool last night, you'd probably say "ok, gimme details man!", then I'd tell all about it, then you might feel compelled to make something similar happen in your life. Let's say you do, you then tell me a story about how you banged 4 chicks over an entire weekend in your house. I want details, and I want their phone numbers.

That's how guys keep themselves entertained. Women will explore the full gamut of emotion for anything that satisfies them and their desires, that's why a lot of women are pretty f*cking cruel to the point of being some kind of borderline psycho who enjoys physically torturing people. Ever read about Carlos Hathcock and his tours in Vietnam? The Vietcong had some chick that was always with them in the infantry whose vices included torturing captured American GIs. Hathcock described one in particular as she ripped out fingernails of some poor dude, cut his ballsack open, and a few other details I'm forgetting at the moment. Yep, that was a woman.

 

[Vivacity]

Drama = Power Game = Unwillingness/reluctance to give control over herself to another person. Essentially, she wants to do whatever the fukc she wants and not have her partner say a word to her.

Fine. But, does she have the ability, intellect, and decisiveness to lead so I can follow her?

 

[Poon King]

It is one of their many tools of manipulation.

Drama creates power struggles. While men seek to dominate people physically (sex, violence, economic power, etc.) women seek to dominate people emotionally.

 

[guru1000]

Women seek drama. Drama invokes emotion. Emotion is the estrogen-ic woman's playground.

Men seek victory. Victory invokes dominance. Dominance is the testosteron-ic men's playground.

When a woman seeks victory, run.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Well first off, it is the man's job to serve the world. Secondly, it is the woman's job to serve men. Nowadays they do not serve men because they do not have to as it is not needed for survival, and thus they have nothing to do. At the same time however they are still competing for the best man that they can get (all the while the man is trying to make something out of himself), hence all the skimpy outfits, excess makeup, and slandering of other chicks when they aren't around. So it is a result of having too much time on their hands because they aren't cooking or cleaning or nurturing the kids and because of the female competitive drive.

 

[wifehunter]

I've had this thought for awhile, and here's my experience and observations so far.

1. They love the emotional roller coaster, it helps them feel their emotions better. The contrast between sadness and happiness and all the colors in between.

2. They are bored normally, and drama fits how their emotional minds work, keeps them engauged, and keeps their attention.

3. Feminine energy is about connecting and bonding. Drama is a natural product of this process.

So at the end of the day, we can say it's part of their nature. Drama can be fun. It can also be dangerous, when the sense of reality is thrown out the window. That's why they need real men... to keep them grounded in reality.

 

[Vivacity]

Woman's drama = Test of a man's betaness/alphaness.

By invoking her drama, a woman is asking questions to the man she is dealing with. She asks the man, are you alpha or beta? If so, how much of an alpha or beta are you? Show me. I want to see.

She wants to see how much of a man (i.e., beta or alpha) she is dealing with, what kind of acts he will let or not let her to do, and how much he will let her slip by. In short, a power game aka a test of man's power and her power and how much control she has over the man.

Whether she will stay with the man or is willing to lose him due to her drama, depends on various factors such as a woman's maturity, her partner preferences, her preference to hold on to her power or concede to the man, the phase of life she is in, etc.

In general, you see more drama with young girls and pretty women. There can be exceptions though.
Young girls have time by their side, to test the waters and play around, and can afford to lose good guys.
Pretty women have beauty by their side, and a continuous supply of beta-orbiting men, and can afford to lose good guys too.

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

In any situation, a man's evolutionary reaction is (normally), 'This is because of xyz reasons. Oh well, so be it'.

In the same situation, a woman might react, 'This is how this situation makes me feel. I must work through most if not all of my broad spectrum of emotions in order to seek clarity. I'm not sure how long it's going to take.'

We can't fight nature. I wouldn't cope very well myself under the latter circumstance. You see it a lot on this board actually, guys going round and round with their emotions. It's a very frustrating place to be.

 

[marmel75]

Pretty basic

Drama = powerful emotions
Powerful emotions = crack to women

 

[Bayne05]

Because woman talk, they talk alot and about every little thing. Have you ever been the only guy surrounded by a bunch of woman? Worse sh!t ever! The conversations are so stupid and you really get to understand how shallow woman can really be. I've heard countless woman admit that they broke up with a guy because he was too innocent, he did all the right things and she got bored fast.
Drama keeps a womans life interesting. She'll have something to talk about with her friends and be the center of attention, and we all know how much woman love attention.