Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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why do women frequently use the term empowerment ?

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why do women frequently use the term empowerment ?

Does the term refer to feminists who they have corporate power/legal power over men?

I am confused how is this word relate to women.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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picard said:
why do women frequently use the term empowerment ?

Does the term refer to feminists who they have corporate power/legal power over men?

I am confused how is this word relate to women.
Because embi.tching isn't a real word.
 

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hithard said:
Because embi.tching isn't a real word.
ha ha -priceless !
 

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picard said:
why do women frequently use the term empowerment ?

Does the term refer to feminists who they have corporate power/legal power over men?

I am confused how is this word relate to women.
Feminism was driven by the left and lefties love their meaningless buzzwords.
 

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http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/empowerment
: to give official authority or legal power to <empowered her attorney to act on her behalf>
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: enable 1a
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: to promote the self-actualization or influence of <women's movement has been inspiring and empowering women — Ron Hansen>

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empowerment

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Empowerment


lol. does that mean websters is feminist? haha. Seriously though...whatever about empowerment, the fact that you feel the need to throw it up in other peoples face is not true empowerment. People with power know they have it and feel no need to constantly tout it. Imagine the President (any of them, not just O) constantly saying, "I'm the president! I'm empowered!!!!!" it would have the exact opposite effect. You would either rankle from his stupidity, or doubt his claim. Its poor manners and poor form.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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