Always thought about this, it's always pissed me off, but never actually posted it. Question is: Why do so many women feel it's their "God given" right to talk dirty to men, but when men talk dirty to these same women, it's automatically shunned and ridiculed, and they're labeled as pigs, sleazy, perverted, etc.? How did this mentality originate?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why do women feel it's their God given right to....
- Thread starter No Escape
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No Escape said:Always thought about this, it's always pissed me off, but never actually posted it. Question is: Why do so many women feel it's their "God given" right to talk dirty to men, but when men talk dirty to these same women, it's automatically shunned and ridiculed, and they're labeled as pigs, sleazy, perverted, etc.? How did this mentality originate?
You can talk dirty to women you just cant do it in front of there mates.
The reasons are kind-a apparant but if you truly dont know then you need to read more.
I've gone through the bible, and don't recall stumbling across it.jonwon said:You can talk dirty to women you just cant do it in front of there mates.
The reasons are kind-a apparant but if you truly dont know then you need to read more.
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Don't blame the board.. you failed to properly define "talking dirty".No Escape said:Wow, this thread has been viewed 131 times, and only ONE person has responded. This board is amazing.
If I get the gist of what you are saying however, it's pretty simple- men are naturally in a more powerful social group. The talk from women is just that, however men tend to take action on those words.
When I say "talking dirty", I'm referring to making sexual comments.PowertripII said:Don't blame the board.. you failed to properly define "talking dirty".
If I get the gist of what you are saying however, it's pretty simple- men are naturally in a more powerful social group. The talk from women is just that, however men tend to take action on those words.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PowertripII
Don Juan
And when I hear "talking dirty" I think "Come here you little slut, I want to stick this in your ass".No Escape said:When I say "talking dirty", I'm referring to making sexual comments.
Yeah, that would be an example...I'm also referring to comments such as "What I would do to you" or "Now I'm going to be spanked for that..but spank me harder, harder". Sh*t like that.PowertripII said:And when I hear "talking dirty" I think "Come here you little slut, I want to stick this in your ass".
There's dirty abusive and there's dirty seducive OK? If you say "Clean me off with your mouth slut!" it somewhat lacks charm.
If you say " Maybe we should workout together some time, you look like you could help me with lower body repetitions". then it's all harmless fun.
If you say " Maybe we should workout together some time, you look like you could help me with lower body repetitions". then it's all harmless fun.
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