Always thought about this, it's always pissed me off, but never actually posted it. Question is: Why do so many women feel it's their "God given" right to talk dirty to men, but when men talk dirty to these same women, it's automatically shunned and ridiculed, and they're labeled as pigs, sleazy, perverted, etc.? How did this mentality originate?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do women feel it's their God given right to....
- Thread starter No Escape
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No Escape said:Always thought about this, it's always pissed me off, but never actually posted it. Question is: Why do so many women feel it's their "God given" right to talk dirty to men, but when men talk dirty to these same women, it's automatically shunned and ridiculed, and they're labeled as pigs, sleazy, perverted, etc.? How did this mentality originate?
You can talk dirty to women you just cant do it in front of there mates.
The reasons are kind-a apparant but if you truly dont know then you need to read more.
I've gone through the bible, and don't recall stumbling across it.jonwon said:You can talk dirty to women you just cant do it in front of there mates.
The reasons are kind-a apparant but if you truly dont know then you need to read more.
Wow, this thread has been viewed 131 times, and only ONE person has responded. This board is amazing.
PowertripII
Don Juan
Don't blame the board.. you failed to properly define "talking dirty".No Escape said:Wow, this thread has been viewed 131 times, and only ONE person has responded. This board is amazing.
If I get the gist of what you are saying however, it's pretty simple- men are naturally in a more powerful social group. The talk from women is just that, however men tend to take action on those words.
When I say "talking dirty", I'm referring to making sexual comments.PowertripII said:Don't blame the board.. you failed to properly define "talking dirty".
If I get the gist of what you are saying however, it's pretty simple- men are naturally in a more powerful social group. The talk from women is just that, however men tend to take action on those words.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PowertripII
Don Juan
And when I hear "talking dirty" I think "Come here you little slut, I want to stick this in your ass".No Escape said:When I say "talking dirty", I'm referring to making sexual comments.
Yeah, that would be an example...I'm also referring to comments such as "What I would do to you" or "Now I'm going to be spanked for that..but spank me harder, harder". Sh*t like that.PowertripII said:And when I hear "talking dirty" I think "Come here you little slut, I want to stick this in your ass".
There's dirty abusive and there's dirty seducive OK? If you say "Clean me off with your mouth slut!" it somewhat lacks charm.
If you say " Maybe we should workout together some time, you look like you could help me with lower body repetitions". then it's all harmless fun.
If you say " Maybe we should workout together some time, you look like you could help me with lower body repetitions". then it's all harmless fun.
SELF-MASTERY
Banned
- Joined
- Dec 15, 2004
- Messages
- 1,971
- Reaction score
- 7
how old are you?